some people are toxic and manipulative. ur hubby is one such guy. either u can play the game or if not, reconsider ur options.
when someone is in the wrong, one jolly well own up and apologise. He is really a piece of crap
im having problems in my marriage (childless) and some ppl tell me to have a kid to solve the problem.
I think it is a very bad idea.
Solve the root of the ur problem and dun try to have a kid just to make things better. If ur marriage isnt good before the child, chances are it will get worse...
i cant deny i married my wife like its a natural progression. having second tots now tbh.
but i also realised in life we dun get everything we want. i dunno if we are supposed to compromise and settle or YOLO
firstly i do believe there are happy couples, but seems like most people have problems in their marriage. I have problems with mine and some days i wake up really depressed.
I feel stuck but im also wondering if its becos i didnt do enough.
im wondering out there how many ppl really have happy...
i have lotsa differences with wife too. different thinking and diff work competencies. sometimes i wonder if its my own problem or its a common problems for many.
do we work out the differences or move on with life alone? honestly i dun think anyone knows the answer
im in the same situation as u. never expect to be in a sexless marriage. We cannot have sex (she finds it super pain) and im sexually frustrated. We dun have third parties but it just doesnt seem complete. but emotionally we are always there for each other . sucky situation for me