Your Views

[bearyhip]

Need your views.
Normal for HB to keep photo of ex-wife in wallet?
Thank you

 

[jojo28]

It depends on how generous you are?

For me,Normally, i do not allow him to keep photo of his ex.

 

[icygal]

No la... will jealous leh... But I don't really care; quite confident of myself.. haha

 

[bearyhip]

I am quite ok with it and practically forgot about until the last outing with his sister and niece.
They kept talking to him about her and the kids and the niece still address her as aunt-in-law.
If she is still the aunt-in-law/sis-in-law, where do I stand?

 

[jojo28]

i know what you are trying to say. Ya,it is so frustrating and the sister do not seem to be understanding also to know how you feeling?

What can we do on this?

 

[cuclainne]

the husband only have photos of the children in his wallet .. even got photos of his siblings but none of me leh ..

 

[its_fate]

cuc - Jealous right =)

bearyhip - Me will feel jealous.

So what about U? People handle things differently. Dun have so call benchmark.. U have to know your own feeling/respone towards this first =)

 

[findingnemo]

The photo is an individual photo or family photo with kids? If with kids then ok lah.

 

[cuclainne]

hahahahah .. actually no, iris .. though i do have photos of the husband in my purse .. every time he renews his EP, he'll go to get passport photos done and whatever copies remain, he'll give to me.. lol.

 

[bearyhip]

hi ladies
thanks for your views and understanding.
the photo are individual and the best part, it is placed next to his.
question him over the weekend and he said that no time to clear them and says that no such thing about his sister still regarding her as SIL...

 

[findingnemo]

Oh.... since he has "no time to clear", maybe you can suggest that you help him to clear the photo and also replace it with yours?

 

[tweetwee]

I second Nemo. I would 'help' him gleefully.

 

[bearyhip]

thanks ladies

will tell him tonite