this thread was actually dying off, i revived it asking for an apology from 2 pple who should apologise, in every sense of the way the world works in life... the failure to see why, is very much the reason why this 2 individuals will not lead very happy lives.
i guess at the end of the day, our success is based very much in Reality, not in forums... but with little life some can have in Reality, their source of validation may come from the forum.
it's always amazing to see pple register just to whack me... either they are new, or they are hiding their actual nicks... but that is something left for that individual to learn.
jenny's contribution to the forum in general has been a series of contradictions... no firm stand on anything except maybe - my language. i may have profanity in my language, but jenny has a very vulgar misconstrued mindset. she will live and die unhappy unless her mindset changes. deny all she wants, her life In Reality will remain unfulfilling.
BP is one confused soul... unable to speak up againstthose who oppress her in real life, only finding a voice in the forum, but follows the wrong examples... will likely remain shallow whilst thinking she has learnt more.
carol... i can only wish u all the best. just that your actions contradict your intentions. u may state how much u want something for your daughter and blame Others for not giving her a chance, But u are as responsible for depriving your daughter... u dun see it, u won't see it.
so after so many posts.... the Only fault some of u can find with my poosts is the OCCASIONAL use of the word 'fcuk' or 'fcuking' during emphasis. Much as u bunch might like to Package it as profanity, it is pretty much an undeniable fact that they were used for emphasis... something some of u wilfully ommit and will not admit. this immediately displays your lack of integrity. if u count my posts with these words, versus those without, u might realise it's only taken less than 10% of posts i have made. But some of u have show an Absolute lack of integrity in over 90% of your posts.
this points rather clearly to a fundamental Flaw in both character and integrity. without these 2 qualities... i dun think any of u should be Teaching me how to advise nor package...
but actually i'm tired... i realised that i have been here for abt 7yrs... helped many pple online and off it, gone thru low moments with pple over Years in actual fact, and spent countless hours in empathy and listening ear....
never wanted credit for those since my reasons are unbelieveable to most of u, given that many live in selfish existence... caring only for themselves, living only for themselves.
the forum has deteriorated in advice... most of u won't see it becos u can't even differentiate between good and bad advice, where only concern is Nice advice. whether it works, whether it helps... most will not have the depth of understanding the human psyche, to see it as clear.
i'm tired. very very tired having to deal with psychologically Inapt pple lacking in the ability to discern... yet believe they are smarter than they are.
all said and done, testimonial remains the true mark of a person... and your success in the various aspects of Life itself remains the Fact that stares u in the face. That Is your Reality, however much u try to hide it Online.
i'm probably one of the few rare ones who has never needed to post a problem in this forum.
the ability to discern is very lacking in general in today's society... the forum is a good representation of how many do have the ability, and how many dun. sadly, those who dun think they do...
maybe it's time to lower the curtains soon... Life goes on... for future problems, u will have these few ladies who will be there to hug and console u in your lowest moments.
i just hope they are as prepared to walk the path with u, and not do it in their free time Only...
tired... so leave to u guys to stick around and offer your best to help pple overcome their problems.
