HI all,
I think you all totally misunderstood me, at that time, i am merely asking my MIL to help to tide over a period (a week) while i get my maid, I NEVER EXPECT HER TO BABYSIT MY BOY forever or 20 years! I am not so selfish to expect the old folks to do that. I really found that all of you are trying to think yourself very great and I am the worse DIL or mother in the world.
It is ok as i don't need anyone to say me right, be it helpless or more than a little 霸é“... etc. Why must always the old folks right? Just to help also meaning i am expecting too much? Meaning i am asking for too much? You mean all of you never seek for help? All of you are so mighty can do everything yourself?
Perhaps, so be it, i am a totally loser. Serve me right and I deserve all these craps from my MIL. They are right to humilate me in front of my maid and they are right to do all sort of things to me only when i asked for help and just a moment of anger i ended up being blamed by all here.
Serve me right! I am more than a little 霸é“...petty, selfish, self-centered, and all the bad wording you name it.
Thanks, first time posting and ended up all these misery which reflect and flashed through my mind every min and seconds.
My kid will pick up all the bad things from me. I think this is what you all like to hear.