one minute u lament that "women got a lot to lose if their spouse/bf strays"
then i tell u "when u can identify a 'problem', why can't u identify a solution?"
and u tell me "different people live differently" and cite lyndy and doll as "happy people".
is there something i dun get here? or are u brushing things under the carpet with wat u say? a minute ago u wanted to make women the victim and next u telling me pple have different thinking? u dun seem keen to address issues, but just to lament and shout them out.
btw, i know Doll is capable of being happy becos of who she is as a person. not sure abt lyndy, just didn't know that u know both so well to make that statement.
if u learnt to respect others, start by respecting Yourself. and stop believing that u're the weaker sex with no control, no choices, and set to be dumped once u're old. if u dun even know how to respect yourself and your right to a fulfilling life as an individual, i dun think u're very convincing when u tell me that u learnt to respect other's view be it right or wrong.
to me it's your way of telling me that nobody really bothers to listen to your view even if u made them in the first place. so it's better to talk abt respecting other's views.
btw, Lyndy being a "happy" person... is highly likely to end up on the opposite end of the scale. and oh, i so respect her view and shall watch her headed for disaster.
sounds horrible right? 'respect other's views' even if u know it's crap and then watch them fall down, like a spectator.
so No, i dun agree. i Will tell u if i think your thoughts will be your biggest failing and weakness. i Will tell u if your mindset will bring u a lifetime of unhappiness.
i dun know how to brush things off with similar generic statements.