Hmmm did u ask him why he msg u "I'm engaged" and then 2 hrs later says he wants to start afresh?!
I dunno you or him personally so I do agree that some issues between a couple can only be understood by themselves. But sometimes when you lay everything on the table, outsiders will see it clearer than you simply bcos they're not in love. Although I do notice the forumers here tend to favor advising a split.
I completely understand what you're feeling. Your head and heart cannot agree?
Although I'm curious, what was the reason for the split? And why are you so sure there isn't a third party?
I dunno you or him personally so I do agree that some issues between a couple can only be understood by themselves. But sometimes when you lay everything on the table, outsiders will see it clearer than you simply bcos they're not in love. Although I do notice the forumers here tend to favor advising a split.
I completely understand what you're feeling. Your head and heart cannot agree?
Although I'm curious, what was the reason for the split? And why are you so sure there isn't a third party?