Hi Milo and Simpleman,
Both of you are right!We do have communication problems.Everytimei tried talking to him peacefully on our problems.He will not look at me and said anything,after that he will raise his voices at me and asked me to shut-up not to continue with what i'm saying.I'm someone who dont believe in screaming and yelling if there is a problem. I believe in a relationship we should try to understand th other party inner feelings and thoughts,try looking at things from their shoe and compromisewith each other differences.With his attitudes towards me,i don't know how should i handle him.Each time i want to talk to him about us.I will be very fearful and stress.
Milo,recently i have bought lubricant,its does help abit.
I think i don't exactly know how men think which is why i'm here seeking for advices and enlightnment.I know there are men who is willing to work together with spouses to solve problems. It's true, i also knew my hubby is someone who are not vocal when comes to relationship problems. This is a real headache for me.