Okay here the story goes...I'll try to summarise...
My hub cooked for me while I'm at work..I returned home late only to see that my share of dinner was half-eaten by him. I was upset and asked why he ate my share. He said he didn't know if I'm coming home at all to eat since I'm so late. I reached home ard 7.30p.m. He didn't ask what time I'm going to be home and I guess he assumed that I'll be home around 7??
I feel upset because if you promise you'll cook for someone, you'll never eat their share assuming that he/she is not going to eat it! Precisely I came home late, I'm feeling famished. So when I questioned him why he ate my dinner, he said it's because I'm late and that he's not sure if I'm going to come back for dinner (tho I clearly told him I AM coming home for dinner in the same afternoon he asked me). Secondly, he said he's hungry. I rather he tells me truthfully about the second reason. The lst reason is crappy to me.
I don't know what's up with him and he said I do not appreciate that he cooks for me! Firstly, I've never requested him to cook! He likes cooking and happily does it. I appreciate his cooking and that's y I like to eat more and not to return home to see my half-eaten dinner!
Can someone tell me what is going wrong here? It's such a trivial matter and he feels upset and angry abt it for the past two days?
I told him it's our miscommunication and that both of us are at fault but apparently he's acting like a baby and hopes I would apologise. Duh?? By talking to him nicely, telling him that I appreciate his food and asking him out dun work at all. I don't know what the man is thinking now and what he wants me to do???
It's bad enough for me to have a full day of meeting at work and I have to come home to face all these. Is this roles reversal or what? As previously mentioned, he has more time than me at hand. Sigh...
My hub cooked for me while I'm at work..I returned home late only to see that my share of dinner was half-eaten by him. I was upset and asked why he ate my share. He said he didn't know if I'm coming home at all to eat since I'm so late. I reached home ard 7.30p.m. He didn't ask what time I'm going to be home and I guess he assumed that I'll be home around 7??
I feel upset because if you promise you'll cook for someone, you'll never eat their share assuming that he/she is not going to eat it! Precisely I came home late, I'm feeling famished. So when I questioned him why he ate my dinner, he said it's because I'm late and that he's not sure if I'm going to come back for dinner (tho I clearly told him I AM coming home for dinner in the same afternoon he asked me). Secondly, he said he's hungry. I rather he tells me truthfully about the second reason. The lst reason is crappy to me.
I don't know what's up with him and he said I do not appreciate that he cooks for me! Firstly, I've never requested him to cook! He likes cooking and happily does it. I appreciate his cooking and that's y I like to eat more and not to return home to see my half-eaten dinner!
Can someone tell me what is going wrong here? It's such a trivial matter and he feels upset and angry abt it for the past two days?
I told him it's our miscommunication and that both of us are at fault but apparently he's acting like a baby and hopes I would apologise. Duh?? By talking to him nicely, telling him that I appreciate his food and asking him out dun work at all. I don't know what the man is thinking now and what he wants me to do???
It's bad enough for me to have a full day of meeting at work and I have to come home to face all these. Is this roles reversal or what? As previously mentioned, he has more time than me at hand. Sigh...