buddhabar
Active Member
I was having this light hearted chat with my best friend who is also my childhood friend of 30 years.
She is 41, single, financially sound and I am 41, divorced with 2 kids, financially sound too.
I told her my 2 kids drives me up the wall and drains my energy dry although they are certainly my source of strength and motivation. She insist the freedom and carefreeness keeps her at ease, happy and burden free but revealed there are certain moments of loneliness that's unbearable especially in the silence of night. She claimed I am having the worst of the deal as I have to deal with the children shit without the contentment of a complete family. I then scorned her by telling her I will have a better life when they grow up rather then wondering who's going to bring me to the doc when I am 60 years old! She then suggested we be partners in companionship for the rest of our lives! ( of course that's a joke )
She is 41, single, financially sound and I am 41, divorced with 2 kids, financially sound too.
I told her my 2 kids drives me up the wall and drains my energy dry although they are certainly my source of strength and motivation. She insist the freedom and carefreeness keeps her at ease, happy and burden free but revealed there are certain moments of loneliness that's unbearable especially in the silence of night. She claimed I am having the worst of the deal as I have to deal with the children shit without the contentment of a complete family. I then scorned her by telling her I will have a better life when they grow up rather then wondering who's going to bring me to the doc when I am 60 years old! She then suggested we be partners in companionship for the rest of our lives! ( of course that's a joke )