hi, i am like u, i like white WG with black lace!
i gotta agree that elderly are still very old-fashioned and dislike black color for happy ocassions. They simply just love red color!! My mom forbids me to wear black EG for my AD, and does not want the banquet decor to be dark coloured.
What i am going to do is - i will try to wear a white WG with black lace for my photoshoot instead!! mayb u can consider this option too?