holiday_ger
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how long before your AD?
When do you inform your guests tat they are invited to your wedding dinner?
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holiday_ger
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i heard 3 mths... if AD on christmas day then hv to inform at least 6 mths... otherwise ppl book their holiday liao..
tink i will try inform 3 mths before coz heard tat 1 mth before is for those ppl to fill up vacancy one.. so i dun want any of my guests to feel they r there to fill up vacancy..
tink i will try inform 3 mths before coz heard tat 1 mth before is for those ppl to fill up vacancy one.. so i dun want any of my guests to feel they r there to fill up vacancy..
I have actually "informed" my relatives during CNY. Cos as usual, there will be ppl asking when the wedding, etc..
I have informed my friends also during gatherings and the others as and when we chatted online. ;p
The only ppl that i expect would be oversea are my bosses and colleagues, cos for the past 3 yrs we have company trip during xmas. And today i was told they are planning it on the day of my wedding, straight after my wedding dinner(they bringing luggage along for the dinner)and leaving for the airport after the dinner and leaving me behind.. sad..
I have informed my friends also during gatherings and the others as and when we chatted online. ;p
The only ppl that i expect would be oversea are my bosses and colleagues, cos for the past 3 yrs we have company trip during xmas. And today i was told they are planning it on the day of my wedding, straight after my wedding dinner(they bringing luggage along for the dinner)and leaving for the airport after the dinner and leaving me behind.. sad..
inspectorgadget
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3-6 months if yours is during a not so hot period (After Qing Ming to before Seventh Month, with exceptions to super-duper omgwtfbbq hot dates).
6-9 months if yours is during "wedding season" (After Seventh Month to Before Chinese New Year)
9-12 months if yours is that kind of super-duper omgwtfbbq hot date.
Add 3 months if you would like some of these guests to be groomsmen and bridesmaids
Confirm as early as possible, the invitation can reach later or nearer to the actual day.
6-9 months if yours is during "wedding season" (After Seventh Month to Before Chinese New Year)
9-12 months if yours is that kind of super-duper omgwtfbbq hot date.
Add 3 months if you would like some of these guests to be groomsmen and bridesmaids
Confirm as early as possible, the invitation can reach later or nearer to the actual day.
superfamous
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we got notice about 3 months for most of our friends.
ours was in october, so we informed people before and after 7th, apparently cannot invite during 7th mth, so we tried to send out invites before 7th mth. the rest which we didnt manage to, after 7th mth (which was quite late!)
ours was in october, so we informed people before and after 7th, apparently cannot invite during 7th mth, so we tried to send out invites before 7th mth. the rest which we didnt manage to, after 7th mth (which was quite late!)
joannepang
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I've informed my respective guests too but mine is wedding lunch on weekday as i only invite few close frds and relatives mainly. So when should I confirm their attendance? Thanks