was reading through this thread...
anyway, just to share my story,many years ago, my hubby was somewhat like "sianz", tried asking me out, expressed his interest in me..
but all these while i kept telling him that i only treat him as friend...as and when, he will ask me out but i always declined.
one day, out of the blue, i just decided maybe i can give this guy a chance coz he is a nice guy...
fast forward many years later, we r married now. When i think back, i still don know how we ever got together. hahaha