What Will U Do If U Know Ur Hubby Is Having An Affair?


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powderful07

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Ling, just do a search on CK Gal's previous posts...I suspect she also uses another nick to login and post as well...

She's just a pain-in-the-butt pond scum...
 
miloice

miloice

Well-Known Member
no lah powderful...

its quality and not quantity that counts.

u see, I have just been named the guy with fiery words by tired mum.
 
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youbefine

New Member
Hmmm....think the TS wants is advice, views and comfort. We should not be lecturing or even teaching her wat to do next...
Afterall, the decision is hers.
Though you may not give her your blessings but tat does not mean she should be treated badly...
 
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kinberuri

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thanks all....
i am fine.
*i am glad that she is the only one brainless*

well, just that the pain in the ass is brainless....somehow... *weep (sad for her)

*wonder if u do need the recipe how to cook pig's brain soup. i would be glad to help u to find.

oh ya... i would like to engage a PI to check who the freak this CKGal is....lolz
 
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noella

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Kimmy,

Glad to know u r fine. Dun coop up urself at hm...
One's mind tends to drift when alone n nothing to do
Engage activities to keep urself busy,or even get a book to read can be self-fulfilling

~My own personal tots~ :p
 
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noella

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No prob
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*Hugz*
 
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youbefine

New Member
Hi Kimmy,
I agree with Noella.
At times, writing a diary/ notes will help too. Especially when one does not wish to talk about it.
Sometime, we may not know where went wrong but by writing them down, you may find a clue or two.
 
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royal_salute

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Doll..

hahahaha.. i dunno is kimmy's thread in the first place..my bad. Good that she has get over and having new frens now. Carry on everyone.. no comments. ^^v
 
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simpleman

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alvin,

It depends on many things and on the outcome you want before you decide to do anything. Some decisions cannot be reversed.
 
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simpleman

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Alvin,

The classic advice is for you to expose the affair.

But it depends, sometimes not exposing (if you want to save the marriage) may help save the marriage
 
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tizaneh

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no point forcing or pretend that nothing's wrong. once a scar, always a scar. if you learn to accept it and move on then don't ever bring the scar topic in the future. it gets tiring when you have to go back n forth.

everyone of us are capable of making mistakes. men are known to stray when they are not getting enough or exactly what they want from their partners.

they go to geylang as the ladies there are definitely more willing than most of us. this is the sad reality.
 
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texasholdem

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I am prepared to è· o‹Ž already. i have no intention of saving the marriage either. currently i am creating a blog + pictures + details of the bastard. if any of you interested in viewing, just drop me a msg and i will send u the link.
 
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baggyeyes

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maybe revenge.....

but for me...maybe can give me a real life example on what to gather if things don't go the right way? :D
 
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may_be_divorced_soon

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Aren't pics, bills, sms, emails the usual evidence? Unless you are thinking of what kind of evidence you need to gather to divorce based on infidelity that are admissible in court.

In the end, whether the evidences you have gathered are concrete proof that things have gone wrong is entirely dependent on your own judgement. To some people, a pic of their other half going out with a member of the opposite sex with no hand holding will be a sign of them straying while to some people, it is perfectly normal.
 
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may_be_divorced_soon

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Hi Kimmy,

I have been very busy for the past few weeks... am still busy now but just feel like taking a break this morning. So how are you and your job search coming along?
 
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texasholdem

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'Just wondering what is the point in creating a blog with details of TOM? To take revenge by shaming him?' -- u have hit the nail real hard.
Freedom comes with a price to pay and everyone must know that you can be 'gracious' to pay the price. Dare to do it, why not dare to be gossiped by other pple?
 
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may_be_divorced_soon

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Alvin, if that is the case, then you should have it published on national papers in order to meet your objective. Alternatively, put the link on yahoo, youtube, facebook, friendster so that you can get the readership you want.

Anyway, it takes 2 hands to clap and it may not be the 3rd party who is at fault. When a marriage fails, all parties have a part to play. To each his own then.
 
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missszesze

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I guess to expose an affair needs lots of guts too.. and provided that you are mentally prepared. I totally can feel for the saying "truth hurts".

Alvin, jia you..
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simpleman

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Gossiped by other people so what?

After a while, it is stale news..

I believe in exposure of affairs.. yes make known to the people concern.

But public? I don't think it is necessary

Once a couple.. it is good to be gracious and leave something for people..
 
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simpleman

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It is actually tempting to expose and tell the whole world.. yes, you gain some instant gratification.. but so what?

At the end of the day, it changes nothing.

For me, I don't even tell anyone about my wife's affairs.. Not even her parents..or my siblings I don't want them to blame her. Only my children are in the know .. I also regretted letting them know.. although in the circumstances, difficult to hide from them..

I am also glad that my children didn't know much.. so much easier for them to re-build relationship with their mother..
 
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green_tranquility

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Legal action can be taken on Alvin for defamation by his ex.

I also believe in being gracious. Why make things so ugly? Remember it doesn't make us look good in front of people too.
 
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may_be_divorced_soon

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Green,

Guess it is instant gratification like what sm has said. I was just thinking under what circumstances would I want to view the link? Unless:
1) I want to make sure that it is not my hb/bf who is the male lead
2) I want to kpo to see if the male lead is charming

Apart from the 2 reasons above, why would I want to view it? Not that I would know him anyway.
 
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zenteno

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I am interested in reading the blog.. can send the link to me as well?? Thanks...

comment after reading.. as we dont even know what actually happens..
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