troubledhusband1
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Married for 7 years, have 1 kid.
Recently found my wife was cheating on me. She cried and begged for my forgiveness. I called her lover out and beat him. And the lover promised me they won't see each other again, I knew that's not possible since they are colleagues.
Anyway, I found they were together again weeks later. I was out of rage by that time. And later my wife told me, they had kept connection with each other for 1 month after I found out. She said she is willing to live with me, although she realized she did not love me anymore. And she said she also did not love the other guy now, because that guy refused to divorce for her.
I did everything I could to save the marriage. It does not work well since my wife said there is no chemistry any more. But it gets better since she is not asking for divorce now, she asked for divorce or separation everyday for like a month since I discovered the affair.
Now I send a few text messages to my wife everyday, she rarely replies them, if she do reply, the message will be: "Ok" or "ttyl". And never pick up my call during working hours. We sometimes still make love, but she wont let me kiss her.
The worst thing happened to me I think is, I completely lost my confidence. I cannot focus on work nor life. Sometimes cannot sleep whole night. And I am keeping wondering what is going on her side. Although she said she would not do anything like that to me again. And I cannot check on her anymore because that will only push her away from me.
Recently found my wife was cheating on me. She cried and begged for my forgiveness. I called her lover out and beat him. And the lover promised me they won't see each other again, I knew that's not possible since they are colleagues.
Anyway, I found they were together again weeks later. I was out of rage by that time. And later my wife told me, they had kept connection with each other for 1 month after I found out. She said she is willing to live with me, although she realized she did not love me anymore. And she said she also did not love the other guy now, because that guy refused to divorce for her.
I did everything I could to save the marriage. It does not work well since my wife said there is no chemistry any more. But it gets better since she is not asking for divorce now, she asked for divorce or separation everyday for like a month since I discovered the affair.
Now I send a few text messages to my wife everyday, she rarely replies them, if she do reply, the message will be: "Ok" or "ttyl". And never pick up my call during working hours. We sometimes still make love, but she wont let me kiss her.
The worst thing happened to me I think is, I completely lost my confidence. I cannot focus on work nor life. Sometimes cannot sleep whole night. And I am keeping wondering what is going on her side. Although she said she would not do anything like that to me again. And I cannot check on her anymore because that will only push her away from me.
