I had 2 kids from my previous marriage. Had came to know my partner for nearly 2 years. Along the relationship we came to understand each other better and that make us closer each day. Although we loved each other alot but still he cant be able to accept my kids as his own and start a new family with me. He loved the kids but not to the extend to accept them as his own. He told me that he want to grow old with me...but why?? He told me to give him more time to commit to me. I know that is not a easy decision. Guys is this so hard??