Hi, I would like to seek some advise out there. My husband and his mother have a HDB flat. His father is a retiree. Being the only son, he is not willingly to move out. My working place is in the north east and hence the journey time to send me to work is at least half an hour from his place. Normally, after work, I would go to my mother's place till he comes and fetches me back after his work. If we quarrel/or he throws his tantrums, he would not fetch me back but leave me staying at my mom's place. Sometimes for days/weeks/longest being a month.
Of coz, you all can ask me to go back on my own but to face all the uncertainties, such as facing his "lian se", his verbal abuse, me crying and going into depression again, and with an additional point that his and his mom's place is like a rubbish dump, I rather not.
Right now, my parents are moving out and they didn't cater a room for me, I need to get a place of my own. I have no idea on how to get started. Anybody can advise?
Of coz, you all can ask me to go back on my own but to face all the uncertainties, such as facing his "lian se", his verbal abuse, me crying and going into depression again, and with an additional point that his and his mom's place is like a rubbish dump, I rather not.
Right now, my parents are moving out and they didn't cater a room for me, I need to get a place of my own. I have no idea on how to get started. Anybody can advise?