Both are expats, been trying to live together as a couple, but obviously the relationship doesn't work out. The last thing we had was a big arguement, he claimed that we both are too dominant and sometimes he couldn't stand my sturboness. He packed up and left our rental place. I am very sad with his accusation about me, because after a deep thought I think I have been a good and supportive partner. Anyway, it doesn't matter now since it's over.
Weeks after that he came back to take his remaining stuff and passed me the house keys. I still need some of the furniture which belonged to him so I offered to buy them from him, he quoted the price and I agreed. At first we seemed to be pretty calm in the talk, but I didn't know what triggered the fire, we had another arguement of who was at fault etc. Again he left in anger.
He then emailed me his bank detail and requested me to transfer his share of bond of the rental place since he no longer stayed there, together with the money for his furniture. I transfered it immediately because I didn't want to owe him anything, but the next day it bounced back. I emailed him with a copy of the transaction so that he could check if the detail he provided was correct. He didn't reply my email.
Let say the email didn't reach him (very unlikely, it was his company's email), he would have been jumping up and down if he realised the money had not reached his account yet because he is a very 'calculative' type. After a few months I emailed him again about this, and also to inform him that from time to time I still received some letters which were attention to him and reminded him to change his postal address. Again there was no reply. The expensive wedding ring is still with me and it's really surprising that he has not asked it back from me.
It's very not like him. It couldn't be hate because if someone really hates somebody, s/he will chase back everything even if it is a 5 cent that is owed to him/her? I wonder what is in his mind?
Weeks after that he came back to take his remaining stuff and passed me the house keys. I still need some of the furniture which belonged to him so I offered to buy them from him, he quoted the price and I agreed. At first we seemed to be pretty calm in the talk, but I didn't know what triggered the fire, we had another arguement of who was at fault etc. Again he left in anger.
He then emailed me his bank detail and requested me to transfer his share of bond of the rental place since he no longer stayed there, together with the money for his furniture. I transfered it immediately because I didn't want to owe him anything, but the next day it bounced back. I emailed him with a copy of the transaction so that he could check if the detail he provided was correct. He didn't reply my email.
Let say the email didn't reach him (very unlikely, it was his company's email), he would have been jumping up and down if he realised the money had not reached his account yet because he is a very 'calculative' type. After a few months I emailed him again about this, and also to inform him that from time to time I still received some letters which were attention to him and reminded him to change his postal address. Again there was no reply. The expensive wedding ring is still with me and it's really surprising that he has not asked it back from me.
It's very not like him. It couldn't be hate because if someone really hates somebody, s/he will chase back everything even if it is a 5 cent that is owed to him/her? I wonder what is in his mind?