Hi all I am in the midst of filing my divorce. As my ex-husband is trying to make things difficult so I waited for 4 years of separation before I filed for my divorce in apr09. However, after 5 months into filing my lawyer told me in sept that my ex husband refused to accept the papers served on him so need to appeal to court to "paste" notice on his door. Then in Nov 09, and the lawyer said court has approved and i should get the interim in Jan. Just called my lawyer and now she says needs to wait till march. This divorce has been dragging for close to a year and have not had any court hearings. for those who has been thru it.. is this dragging normal or should i change lawyer?