Scope, my hubby is not the type of man who constantly thinks about sex so yes, he needs psychological push too. He must be in the mood and thus we usually engage in longer foreplay too. The best part about him is, he always thinks of 'serving the woman first' before himself. He claims to get into the mood by 'serving the woman first' and unlike some men, he doesn't mind going down on woman etc. But he's just not into bondage, role play (I thought about it though), cosplay (ha!) but sexy lingeries are good for him. He doesn't like a woman who comes on too strong, pin him to bed or something. It's a huge turnoff for him.