Hi, I have always wondered what trust is and what forgiveness can do... I trust him. Will my trust make him faithful? I forgive him. Will my forgiveness make him repent and not commit the same mistake again? If the answers are no, then why do we always talk about trust and forgiveness in a r/s? It seems to me that what we can offer, like trust and forgiveness, are not what make a r/s? Of course I'm just referring to my own r/s... I have been reading this forum for the past few months and managed to sort some thoughts out. But still it is not easy... and like many readers here, will I regret my decision?