Traditional/Chinese wedding, need advice

dnomla

New Member
Hi
I am not exactly sure about the traditional wedding processes, am the first daughter in my family so my parents are not sure too!
We are slightly confused with what to expect at 提亲,聘礼,过大礼(guo da li)
What do we have to give in return?
What is the process?
Does my parents return a portion of the 聘礼/过大礼 to the male's parents as courtesy or how is this supposed to be carried out?
Any materials for my parents to prepare?
 

chinleng

Administrator
Staff member
Hi
I am not exactly sure about the traditional wedding processes, am the first daughter in my family so my parents are not sure too!
We are slightly confused with what to expect at 提亲,聘礼,过大礼(guo da li)
What do we have to give in return?
What is the process?
Does my parents return a portion of the 聘礼/过大礼 to the male's parents as courtesy or how is this supposed to be carried out?
Any materials for my parents to prepare?

You can refer to this article which likely will help:

 

dnomla

New Member
You can refer to this article which likely will help:

Hi! That was really informative:) thank you!
I've just read it
Do you know if Hui Li (回礼), the returning of portion of gifts from Guodali refers to the monetary (red packet bride price) or it refers to physical items given (example candles, pork etc) or some of each?
Thank u:)
 

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