Tips on good sex
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rubbishcow
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Karma Sutra from Borders..
sgbabydoll
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Ask your fiance directly.
sgbabydoll
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TS afraid kena scolding by "hot-tempered, MCP and lazy to use his brains" fiance if she were to ask?
sgbabydoll
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Allan Pease of the book "Why Men Want Sex and Women Need Love: Unravelling The Simple Truth" said in FHM that he "wants the lights turned on, rock and roll going, and her face down on the table".
Hi all, thanks for all the inputs.
However though, it's kinda scary how some ppl are pretty judgmental based on what i have shared in another thread. Honestly, i think the forum should be a good place to share opinions, not judge and impose opinions.
It somehow deters me from sharing more as there will be ppl out there to laugh at you, disapprove of your decision etc.
Sigh.. but thanks though, for those who has given me advice based on genuine concern. Cheers!
However though, it's kinda scary how some ppl are pretty judgmental based on what i have shared in another thread. Honestly, i think the forum should be a good place to share opinions, not judge and impose opinions.
It somehow deters me from sharing more as there will be ppl out there to laugh at you, disapprove of your decision etc.
Sigh.. but thanks though, for those who has given me advice based on genuine concern. Cheers!
well Sarah,
might be pretty judgmental on your part as well, given that the same strangers are more concerned with the regrets on the other thread where there's much resignation, and over here it's the physical pleasures...
though not politically-correct, i've always linked the inability of pple to leave each other to - Sex. yup, it can be That Good that u'd put-up with some BS in the relationship. it's only when the sex dwindles and dries up do u come to the realisation that there's really nothing left to hold on to.
if u're detered from sharing (which to be honest is u asking for help)... then it's becos u're not very willing to face the truth that some pple are seeing. In a way, the forum is like a mirror that let's us see Truth, removes our Denials, and Echoes our innermost thoughts... u can't turn the voices here On & Off At Will.
isn't it a sharing of opinions? or are positive comments an opinion, and negative comments judging? i dun know, u tell me.
Good frens dun Ignore your other problems simply becos u changed the subject. u mean to tell me that your frens in real life start cheering and encouraging u on sex, right after u tell them how much regret u're having and ending it by saying it's an off day?
maybe, but not with the horrendous stuff u shared on your wonderful sex partner whom u're marrying. if i read both threads, it's hard not to single out Sex as a major factor to the relationship sustaining in the first place.
i shall be that fake dumb fren who says, "oh... do it this way, do it that way, do this to him, do that to him...". that's what u want, tat's what u'll get in life. at the end of it when u look at the frens around u, u'll realise they are all like u - in denial and only hear the good things... u and your frens spend time justifying each others' weakness and validating each others' denials.
ps: your little sister tells u how she regret her bfren... u give her advice. then she goes on to ask u tips for sex with the same bfren... u start giggling and sharing with her? OK, good for u.
all the best!
might be pretty judgmental on your part as well, given that the same strangers are more concerned with the regrets on the other thread where there's much resignation, and over here it's the physical pleasures...
though not politically-correct, i've always linked the inability of pple to leave each other to - Sex. yup, it can be That Good that u'd put-up with some BS in the relationship. it's only when the sex dwindles and dries up do u come to the realisation that there's really nothing left to hold on to.
if u're detered from sharing (which to be honest is u asking for help)... then it's becos u're not very willing to face the truth that some pple are seeing. In a way, the forum is like a mirror that let's us see Truth, removes our Denials, and Echoes our innermost thoughts... u can't turn the voices here On & Off At Will.
isn't it a sharing of opinions? or are positive comments an opinion, and negative comments judging? i dun know, u tell me.
Good frens dun Ignore your other problems simply becos u changed the subject. u mean to tell me that your frens in real life start cheering and encouraging u on sex, right after u tell them how much regret u're having and ending it by saying it's an off day?
maybe, but not with the horrendous stuff u shared on your wonderful sex partner whom u're marrying. if i read both threads, it's hard not to single out Sex as a major factor to the relationship sustaining in the first place.
i shall be that fake dumb fren who says, "oh... do it this way, do it that way, do this to him, do that to him...". that's what u want, tat's what u'll get in life. at the end of it when u look at the frens around u, u'll realise they are all like u - in denial and only hear the good things... u and your frens spend time justifying each others' weakness and validating each others' denials.
ps: your little sister tells u how she regret her bfren... u give her advice. then she goes on to ask u tips for sex with the same bfren... u start giggling and sharing with her? OK, good for u.
all the best!
to maintain a healthy sexual relationship, first of all you have to understand each other's frequency and preferences. alot of unspoken ones but it is up to you how you guys are gonna communicate. For my hubby and I, we surprise each other with introduction of little things we get. he usually does all these funny stuff and it really keeps us going as there's no way to be mundane. For myself, i know men are visual animals and since i still have my assets then put them in good use. wear lingerie which are alluring and sexy on special nights. saturday seems like the best for me. haha... even when I am preganant now, i make the effort to put on good lingerie to keep my husband's eyes on me. we enjoy each moment as we know what each of us wants.
