Hi Compassrose, they are rather sticky with freebies. but they would oblige if you give up some perks in return for additional perks. for my case, I requested for 15% additional parking, 16 bottles of house pours, corkage waiver for own brought in wines for 10 bottles & loan of projector. In exchange, I gave up the 1-nite stay at suite,gave up champagne pyramid, gave up wedding guest book, gave up floral pedestals, gave up wedding cake. I didn't need these as mine was not a wedding.