tigerbalmhw
New Member
ok chanced upon this forum and i may need some advice moving forward..
Not really under the right category but i see like many of the posts here are misc stuff.. sorry if i posted at the wrong section
im married after dating for about maybe 5-6 years. married life is about 7 years with a toddler.
during dating we did abstain from any sexual happenings at her request. but after marriage she did not like any sexual happenings too.
its a very mismatch in sexual expectations as i am having a high sex drive but she is having zero sex drive. We did chat about this numerous times till i lost count of it and also got into arguments regarding this.. but the situation does not improve. on average now for the past 3 years maybe its once a year. So now, i suppose the emotional intimacy has also declined alot.
ok.. heres when i think the women will judge me.. yes i did have 3 short term regular FB (not all at the same time but 1 at any point in time) for a period of time (no excuses.. but yea) as i wasnt getting it at home. And after those 3 encounters, i do not believe that my skills (before and after the deed) or tools are the problem. I am also quite tired of sourcing outside as the type im sourcing for (and need) is also with a hint of emotional intimacy.
im really at my wits end and cannot imagine the rest of my live without sexual happenings. also do not wish to consider separation due to my kid.
any advice?
Not really under the right category but i see like many of the posts here are misc stuff.. sorry if i posted at the wrong section
im married after dating for about maybe 5-6 years. married life is about 7 years with a toddler.
during dating we did abstain from any sexual happenings at her request. but after marriage she did not like any sexual happenings too.
its a very mismatch in sexual expectations as i am having a high sex drive but she is having zero sex drive. We did chat about this numerous times till i lost count of it and also got into arguments regarding this.. but the situation does not improve. on average now for the past 3 years maybe its once a year. So now, i suppose the emotional intimacy has also declined alot.
ok.. heres when i think the women will judge me.. yes i did have 3 short term regular FB (not all at the same time but 1 at any point in time) for a period of time (no excuses.. but yea) as i wasnt getting it at home. And after those 3 encounters, i do not believe that my skills (before and after the deed) or tools are the problem. I am also quite tired of sourcing outside as the type im sourcing for (and need) is also with a hint of emotional intimacy.
im really at my wits end and cannot imagine the rest of my live without sexual happenings. also do not wish to consider separation due to my kid.
any advice?