Solemnizer invited us to his house for discussion

Joycey81

New Member
i have chosen a solemnizer on ROM website. He has accepted by booking. however, he wants to meet us for a discussion. i think that is acceptable. but i find the meeting place a bit weird. He invited us to his house. Is this normal? during discussion, what are the questions that a solemnizer is allowed to ask? Any idea?
 
As a solemnizer I would usually meet the couple at a neutral location that is comfortable for them. Perhaps this solemnizer hopes to build trust with you by showing you that he is willing to open his life to you. If you are not comfortable, please do suggest another location and usually we will accept.
I usually would like to get to know the couple, usual questions on how you met etc. Pretty much to ascertain that it is not a marriage of convenience. Also to perhaps recommend a marriage preparation course if the couple is open. I will not ask any questions that get too personal. The bulk of the conversation would be on how the couple would like the solemnisation ceremony. I hope this helps.
 

Joycey81

New Member
As a solemnizer I would usually meet the couple at a neutral location that is comfortable for them. Perhaps this solemnizer hopes to build trust with you by showing you that he is willing to open his life to you. If you are not comfortable, please do suggest another location and usually we will accept.
I usually would like to get to know the couple, usual questions on how you met etc. Pretty much to ascertain that it is not a marriage of convenience. Also to perhaps recommend a marriage preparation course if the couple is open. I will not ask any questions that get too personal. The bulk of the conversation would be on how the couple would like the solemnisation ceremony. I hope this helps.
Thank you
 

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