Hi all, this has been bothering me for a year. To cut the story short, We are very much in love when we get married (about 5 years ago, we are together for about 11 yrs now). He was very lovely till about 2-3 years back. There was a change in his character. Last year, he met an old gal fren who was very much like him (he told me) and they kind of fall in love (she knew he was married)but they decided not to allow it to continue. He confessed to me in Aug 2010. Things are awarkward since then but I was trying very hard to keep it going. Last night he asked me "where are we heading"? and honestly I cant answer. I am not sure too. He says that he was also trying very hard but could not find back that feeling we once had. I agree but I kept quiet. We are not financially dependent on each other. I think it is kind of obvious that I shd leave but why cant I find the courage to say? Any answers?????