hi all, im a 21y/o girl, turning 22 soon.
i have a problem with my parents for restricting me to travel abroad or to hang out late. previously, i travelled to phuket with a female colleague and her male friend. as the flight was in late noon (1730hrs), i did not want my parents to send me. plus, they are working and i feel that im old enough to be responsible for myself. still, my mum insisted on sending and she asked for time-off from her coy, took cab all the way to the airport, juz to see me off.
yday, i ask my mum if it's ok for me to go genting/malacca with my bf and his friends (who are a few married couples). personally, i feel that at 21, i dun see the point of seeking permission. but still, i went on. however, after much discussion with my dad, the answer is no. the reason being, my bf and i only got together for 2 mths, so it's not appropriate.
i understand my parents' concern. they are bother because im their daugther. they want to protect me. but personally, how long can they do so? there are many previous occasions where such situations happened and it often embaressed me. now, i develop a phobia that on my wedding day, my mum stop me from getting married and call off the whole thing.
pls advise on how should i go abt dealing...
i dun wanna lie to my parents when i hang out with my friends or bf.. im tired of all this..
i have a problem with my parents for restricting me to travel abroad or to hang out late. previously, i travelled to phuket with a female colleague and her male friend. as the flight was in late noon (1730hrs), i did not want my parents to send me. plus, they are working and i feel that im old enough to be responsible for myself. still, my mum insisted on sending and she asked for time-off from her coy, took cab all the way to the airport, juz to see me off.
yday, i ask my mum if it's ok for me to go genting/malacca with my bf and his friends (who are a few married couples). personally, i feel that at 21, i dun see the point of seeking permission. but still, i went on. however, after much discussion with my dad, the answer is no. the reason being, my bf and i only got together for 2 mths, so it's not appropriate.
i understand my parents' concern. they are bother because im their daugther. they want to protect me. but personally, how long can they do so? there are many previous occasions where such situations happened and it often embaressed me. now, i develop a phobia that on my wedding day, my mum stop me from getting married and call off the whole thing.
pls advise on how should i go abt dealing...
i dun wanna lie to my parents when i hang out with my friends or bf.. im tired of all this..