hello all
As I mentioned I was beri busy with my work project so didnt spend enuf time for my wedding preparation. So everything was beri last min, so 2 weeks b4 my wedding, we met up with our MC n program coordinator to discuss the program.
As mine was a sit down dinner, sigh... alot of things was quite 'traditional' , like cut cake, champagne, thanks guests, 1st & 2nd march in...so many things n only 8 dishes to go so have to send advance team to get the guests in the next table 2 get ready for picture taking. I almost fainted, so boh liao!
Alamak, I hated it beri much to b honest, beri diff from my idea, cosy n relax dinner. This really make me feel very frustrated n the program seem so rush n dont get to enjoy our wedding, disappointed is the word.
I didnt want the yim sang but friends said it is very hard n guests expect that when we were on the stage, kind of hard to tell them no.
I tried beri hard to accept it. I was kept thinking abt it for 3 days until my hubby suddenly burst out (he ususally quite chin chai wan)said he didnt like the 'procedure' for the dinner part. It was exactly wat I was thinking, I decided to call my MC & program coordinator to change the whole thing drastically.
We have decided to 'drop' the stage. I think the stage is the one that make plp feel 'formal' n expectation of yim sang, cut cake etc. Instead we have an open area after carpet n both vip tables were placed at where the stage is supposed to be (all same level).
I have oso decided to drop the 2nd march for the dinner bcos I oreli hv a march in during outdoor solemnisation. We preferred a more relax n cosy dinner, here is our program
7.45 1st March in (so lucky to b able to start on time)
7.50 Thanks the guests for coming, pop champagne. We poured champagne specially for both set of our parents, served them personally (give them abit of attention),a few words of thanks to our parents.
8.00 Dinner begin (beri relax from here on)
8.20 Change to EG n just walk in casually.
Rasa staff moved in the couch into the ballroom just b4 the floral arch. This was my idea as I do not want to go round every table for picture taking except for relative tables. As many of our friends r big groups, it will b more interesting to have some group photos at the open area where the couch was instead of table photos for all. The only thing is we were asking for 'troubles' since these group gathered together, more or less will saboh abit loh.
We have quite a bit time to mingle around, no hurry. As long as the 8 dishes r paced such that the last dish is served around 10pm, my MC & program manager also get to enjoy the dinner, no advance team so every1 can relax n eat their dinner.
We actually play a game with the guests as suggested by the MC since we have time. Not on the stage, so not so pie say lah, quite fun.
By then 10.15 dinner ended, we r by the door to thank the guests.
At least, I have somehting closer to wat we like n feel comfortable. So, my advice for u gals is there is no need to conform to traditional procedure, do wat u wish to, it is your wedding!!