But that said, to be fair to you, there'll be others who choose to stick to their "Made in Singapore" gfs, in lieu of their Chinese ones...Most of these ppl are working for GLCs, stat boards, MNC with postings of 2-3 yrs. When their term is up, they will come back to Singapore to work. Morevoer, they are on Singapore terms, i.e. their CPF continues to snowball whilst they are in China. In most cases, their gfs will never risk their career to join them there...
For another group of people who go to China after graduation, they usually suffer a paycut and compromise on their packages becos they want to experience China. Eventually, they leave on Chinese soil, spend RMB, enjoy CHinese living stds, they realise they can't return to S'pore high living stds anymore. They also find it hard to service their mortgage becos of their shortage of CPF funds, unless you remain working in Singapore lah! They are left with the option of buying a 70-yr lease condo in China which is cheaper (RMB300-400K for a decent apt with amenities in the suburbs). Better than HDB flats. However, when their S'pore gf gets demanding, they will break up and look for Chinese girls whom they can readily call upon.
Remember, don't think there're only Shangahinese girls there. My Singaporean guy friends marry those Anhui, Suzhou, Hangzhou ones working in Shanghai...they are less materialistic.
Please don't let me spoil your evening...This is the real situation there that you shd brace yourself up to!!!