i see current place as our home; a place where we built from scratch - from nothing to something. somehow we don't share the same view.
he thinks now it's good time to sell to cash in profits. he can quit his job, settle his debts and the rest of the money can keep the money for future use. i ask him what if we couldn't find another place in time. he suggest his mom's place which i'm not comfortable with cos very high chance we won't move out once we move in. his mom stay really far where i work.
also, if we move in with her, most likely i would need to give up my job and i'm not sure if i can get a similar pay job. husband has a company vehicle and flexi work time, so it doesn't bother him. if you think he can send me to work everyday, not possible. he's not a morning person, it's hard to get him to wake up early to send me to work. tried a few times liao.
somemore his mom place very small, if we shift in, may have to give up my pets too. the thought of losing my home, job & pets, i got depressed.
husband thinks i'm childish, not seeing the big picture. last night we had an arguement on this matter. he said without this money he has no future. i'm very upset by his comment.
seems like everything is about him. few years back, he got a car cos he felt that a guy at 30 no car = no achievement and it's his dream. told him no need to waste money cos he already had a co vehicle but he very persistent. in the end to finance his car and most of the household bills, i took up an evening job and also left my ex co which i worked comfortably for 8 years to get a higher pay. when asked him to get a second job, he told me he feel stressed?
i don't like it when he does things at his convenience!