tomato,
90% of it is u... the rest of it are less consequential... there's 10-20k-earners in manufacturing too, so why aren't u amongst them? or would u think it's becos u have no chance, or u're too young? well there's a host of reasons that contributes, but remember u contribute 90%.
it's good to have fighting spirit, but fighting spirit is good if u're in quota-based/commission-based jobs that Reward u for fighting... if u're a nurse with fighting spirit or a teacher with fighting spirit... u fight what? win what?
if u are seeking career advancement with fighting spirit, then look at the choice of job u picked (yes You). now u know why your fighting spirit will be absolutely USELESS nomatter how much of it u have? so that's why u're Clueless, but then u're not the only one... thousands of sporeans are clueless... something so simple that only takes u 10mins of common sense to figure out, u didn't... so u would not be a very good problem-solver either.
u are a cheongster with nowhere to cheong, dun know how to cheong, nor is there anything for u to cheong. u either find a place that rewards u for Cheong-ing, or u dun cheong, but look for Other strong points abt u to use to the best effect.
u know HOW MANY pple believe they can do better, believe they are better, believe they will one day get a better life? most of them have 1 thing in common - they believe and do Nothing... just talk talk talk... discuss, end of the day they go home sleep, next morning wake up go to the same job.
i have had countless arguments with pple on forums... alot of them got decent degrees, good results, fluent command of english and basically their fathers teachers frens all Think they should have a bright future. but most of them lack humility... when i mentioned i hold a diploma, somehow many of them think they're already better than me and has a god-given right to do better than me... Dun ever fall into this train of thought - where u think u are worth More by virtue of having a certification from lecturers and teachers, and the belief of parents. society tells u that u are worth alot... but end of the day u look at your paycheck, u have Truth staring at u.
i'll be very honest with u, u went to aust and got yourself a degree... But your english-literacy may only be half of mine. mr. diploma. i hope u get my point from this... u dun have to feel embarassed, the way i will never feel lesser with a diploma.
learn to take things positively, most of the things i tell u, not many pple dare tell u, or will tell u.
your dad is using an extreme negative to justify an average situation and make that average situation look appealing... i have little regard for pple who do that. i acknowledge the contributions of our older generation, but most of them lack the mental ability to compete in today's world... if your dad and me are the same age, i will be earning double his pay in less than 3yrs. it's simple as that... no DISrespect to dad or others... some of them are still living on past solutions. (typo here earlier)
as for your bfren - i dun even wanna mention. As far as career is concerned... u dun have to ask him... he has totally different set of priorities and it has nothing to do with progress, but enjoyment.
IF u are really keen on advancing your career n realising as much of your potentials as u can, u gotta realize it's Serious business... not something u say say whenever u feel down, then next day nothing happens. 8 out of 10 pple here are either not that happy abt their job, or pay, or environment... and 6 of these 8 pple will do nothing but procrastinate and chuck things aside. u are amongst the 6 pple now... u figure how Not to be amongst them.
your life won't change simply becos u wait...