Hi all, Want to hear your opinions on this. If my partner mentioned that i am his prioirity and when i asked him to accompany me let say on a day for some event and he said yea but nearer to date when i asked whether he could make it (as in reconfirm the timing), he said he got to check with his dad as he need to fetch his dad to somewhere blah blah.. so most likely cant accompany me in morning . My principles is if is something not urgent and if i am the one asking first, shouldnt he be letting his dad know and see if can find ways to suit both etc, but he chilled and said that since i ask if he want to accompany me, he said he has the right to say yes or no since i give him the choice. But question is i already asked him if he ok to acc me for some event on a specific day and he did not say he cant make it. He even mentioned his prioirity and my definition of priority is different and we are not align. Isn"t priority about respecting and puting the person first? There is no principles in his basis. Well i can be wrong thats why want to hear your humble views.