Pls Advise: When to Wear What?


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Need advise badly. Am quite confused when to wear the wedding gown & when to wear cheongsam.

I have my tea ceremony, ROM & simple sit-down dinner all on the same day.

- DO I wear the white wedding gown when my FH fetches me from my place to his house for the tea ceremony?
- Or do I wear cheongsam for the tea ceremony?
- When do I wear the white wedding gown then? During the ROM solemnisation @ ROM office?
- Do I wear the wedding gown during dinner as well and then change to evening cheongsam halfway through?

So confusing.. Please advise. Thanks much!


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Hi SK39,
Normally is like that - you wear ur wedding gown waiting for ur hubby to fetch u, then to his hse for tea ceremony.

Then before u head back to ur parent hse, wear the cheongsam or Kua back for the tea ceremony.

Then wear the wedding gown at the start of the dinnner, 3rd dish then change to ur evening gown or cheongsam.

As for ROM, up to you ... if u're going to do ROM on the actual day, then of cos u will wear ur wedding gown but if is a different day, then a nice dress will do.

Dont be confuse.. heehee... enjoy ur wedding