Need some advice

lostsoul39

New Member
Hello, i got to know this guy from a dating app, we been together for a year plus but never been official.. We never went out on an official date before and whenever i suggest a date his reply will be "u decide the place lor" , "see when u free lor" which made me feel sad. We only met up at his house. If i didn’t turn up, he will start scolding me hurtful words like slut, f...face, disgusting dog, moron, motherless dog(my mom has passed on) and he will block me. He got me pregnant once and is unwilling to pay the abortion fees and blames me for not taking birth control pills. He follows thousand of models and influencers on ig. I also caught him using dating app behind my back. I forgave him and continued to stay with him because i really like him, hoping he will treat me better some day. I’m getting tired of his scolding and I often cry in the middle of the night. I feel so ugly and suffocating. i know I’m stupid and naive. I’m embarrass to share this with my friends.. What should i do? Thanks for reading
 


raspberry76

New Member
What makes you so in love with him ?


He is loaded with money ? He is as handsome as a korean oppa ? What else ?
How you so sure he didn't get other girls pregnant too?

Why are you behaving like some on call girl or social escort to make guys happy on bed ?

Leave him before you are diagnosed with sexual diseases.
 

MYYAHOOACC

New Member
Hello, i got to know this guy from a dating app, we been together for a year plus but never been official.. We never went out on an official date before and whenever i suggest a date his reply will be "u decide the place lor" , "see when u free lor" which made me feel sad. We only met up at his house. If i didn’t turn up, he will start scolding me hurtful words like slut, f...face, disgusting dog, moron, motherless dog(my mom has passed on) and he will block me. He got me pregnant once and is unwilling to pay the abortion fees and blames me for not taking birth control pills. He follows thousand of models and influencers on ig. I also caught him using dating app behind my back. I forgave him and continued to stay with him because i really like him, hoping he will treat me better some day. I’m getting tired of his scolding and I often cry in the middle of the night. I feel so ugly and suffocating. i know I’m stupid and naive. I’m embarrass to share this with my friends.. What should i do? Thanks for reading
LEAVE HIM. I'm not sure what you liked about him during your dating app journey. Even if you've liked some of his personality, it is not the end about knowing a person, it's just the beginning. With you taking a step to try to go steady and knowing him more, you have, thank God, you have known him more and that's where you hated all those insults. You are a person with DIGNITY. Don't be tramped by others! Get out of it now if you are still young. There are many other people out there. Don't let your short life be RUIN by another just be because you liked some part of the person.
 

lakshsony

New Member
Tell him how he makes feel about the way he treats you. Leave and never reconsider him. Focus on self-development, love yourself more, and try to understand who really cares about you. But he is not the one.
 

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