Is it really necessary to have sisters on your wedding? Cant we make things simple, just get the bridegroom to come and open the door himself. Afterall, its keeping the marriage that matters and not the wedding day.
I've heard from my cousin that she attended a wedding recently where the bride used all brothers instead of jiemei as all her cousin's are mostly guys. Go ahead as what yummy suggest and have something different
Enjoy the process of planning ur wedding! Dun be bothered by all these gritty nitty issues.. @ the end of the day, u wanna look back at ur wedding wif fond and happy memories..
Though my AD was few weeks back.. everytime i looked at our express video and photos, I still felt very happy.. I do believe that jie meis and brothers played a very impt role.. they really spiced up the wedding part and made the whole event more fun..
Erm.. kinda got used to it.. but dun really like it here.. Hope to move to a more centralise area.. see how the property market lor 3 years later ba.. if can earn, then we'll sell and move to a smaller flat..
in reply to your qn, i didn't ask any relatives or friends to help out. just that on that day, a cousin came early and she, together, with my bro just automatically pour the tea for the ceremony. think any relative can help in this simple task.
maybe you can tell your dad that no jiemei is normal? coz on my side, no jiemei is the norm, have jiemei is only 1-2 cases. even for my colleagues, some of them also no jiemei. its only a half-day event, better to keep it simple.
i also thinkin of havin no jie mei, as i dun haf much friends. close friends is like in sec sch time rite now seldom meet up n the friendship is not so close. but would it be weird if my bf side got his brothers and my side i dun even haf jie mei at all
My AD is next yr. Most of my childhood buddies are guys as I used to mix around with my elder brother's friend from young. So I am thinking of having only brothers at my side to help out around, if my close gfriends are not available. I don't think I want to get some not-close girl friends as jie mei cause they are not really my 'jie mei'.
Guess my photos might turn out unique and interesting with only 1 rose amidst the greens (xiong dis from both sides).