hmmm, im doubting the facts... alimony gt 44k so much meh ??? Ur bf is earns abt $$$$ how much?? I dont think alimony gt $4k so much , somemore no children...
i think u r being cheated.
i was in the same situatuon as u man pinkie, my bf (now hubby) also divorced. they have a daughter. His ex wife (Helenlina) also got affair jus right after their marriage... in fact many affair. some of the guys happen to be i know one... and she is pregnant with the other man's child. i know my now hubby when they r already 2 years plus in their marriage n seperated as (H)is living with her affair guy, and im pregnant with my bf child...
so bo bian, we settle divorce issue fast within 1 mth. Late sep file,early oct done. H needs to deliver in Dec and already did... so , i told her we wont need their divorce if she dont agree to the terms.. cos my hubby pay low... so i told her she is not fit for alimony since she have affair n joint child custody, care n control solely my hubby. she bo bian agree to all condition. but, frankly, i dun wan the care n control de, its my mil who wans ...
anyway, jus to say... ur bf gt the right to choose to n fight . n frankly, i dun believe in $4k alimony. u shd ask him to show u the final judgement of the divorce paper. maybe they r nt even divorce...