I’m almost in the same plight and have a jealous gf too. I’ve known her for 12years. In front of the guys, she always behave very close and nice to me, ‘sing the same rhythm’ but what she been doing just very superficial at times. I know she is purely an attention-seeker, so I just let it be and not bothered by it. I seldom confide in her too coz I’ve seen how she bitched about her other friends and their problems to some others who also know them. I don’t want to be her victim.
She always tells me that I am her good friend, and when she got posted to shanghai last year, she mentioned if one day, I am to get marry, she will give me all her blessings and will assist me in my wedding planning. Now, finally, my big day is next year… and when I broke the news to her when we chatted in MSN she don’t seem to be excited at all. She sounded dull… and later went MIA during the chat. This happened many times already. She will reply promptly when we were chatting about her new China bf or other matters, but when the attention switched to mine, her pace slowed down suddenly and nv even replied.
Just 2 months ago, when we had catch up for lunch when she came back with her bf for short visit, she invited me and my HTB to visit her in Shanghai. We kindly replied her that we can’t as we need to save up for our marriage…her eyes were wide opened and she replied, “Oooh, you mean both of you really decided to settle down?!?!?†Her next best sentence was, “Aiyah… why worry, anyway its gonna be another 2-3yrs to happen!†You should imagine how her tone and expression when she said this… esp when she already knew about our wedding plans. Sometimes, which I think she could be a good actor… -_-‘’’
In fact, she is known to be like that… big ego, and always think she is the best and the prettiest among the gals. Well… probably that’s her way to boost her confident when the facts are totally different from what she think.