funtasty_funtasty
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A little background about this best friend and I. We’ve been friends since sec sch days. We travel together at least once a year and we are each other’s companion for the past few years. She doesn’t like to socialize so to say, I’m most probably her closest friend. However, I do have my own circle of friends and considered more out-going in this aspect (I’m a rather shy person) She has a fiery temper and I’m always the one giving in to her. She has few interest and so, I would plan activities to her likings eg, going karaoke, go for Japanese food..etc..something that she will prefer so that she can enjoy herself. All these years, we have got along well and enjoyed each other’s company. However, due to her bad temper, sometimes I feel that she abuses my good nature. I hardly raise my voice at her while she is capable of doing that once she is in bad mood. After that, she will come back to me and say, that’s her character and that, she usually don’t mean it. She can even say that I do not need to be bothered by her behaviour. How can one feel unhurt in this manner? Never mind, she is a long time friend, I treasure her so I accept that this is just her.
Thing between us has never been the same ever since I met my boyfriend last Nov. During the early days when we were dating, she is still excited and concerned about our development. Last Xmas eve, my boyfriend proposed and I accepted his proposal. When I told her the good news, she say that I’m rubbing salt to her wound by telling her about this on a Xmas eve when she is alone at home. Since then, she has never been kind with her words when its regarding my relationship. She will appear to be uninterested when I share with her on our development. Soon, I started to avoid this sensitive topic. Whenever my bf call me when I’m with her, she will be very impatient and can even shout out loud that “ask your bf dunnit to be so superglue and call and check your whereaboutsâ€etc…So I told my bf to try not to call me when we are together so we switched to SMS. She is also not happy with this and complain that I’m rude to sms others when we are out. This went on for a while till I feel that I’ve had enough of her nonsense. So I started to be cold to her. Now I only sms or email her once a while.
I’m holding my ROM next month. So I emailed her and ask her will she be coming to witness the ceremony. She replied that, she can’t promise yet because she dunno if she can be there on time or not as she needed time to doll up. Then she ask if she need to give me ang bao or gift or not. I said, its up to her but I tink ang bao will be more practical. Then she say I’m money faced and also say that gift is something for my keepsake. So, if she already have a gift in mind, she doesn’t have to ask me my preference and make sarcastic remarks right? So, I lose my patience and tell her, its really up to her. Even if she juz come without a gift, I’ll still be happy.
Her ultimate reply is “yah ~ juz come hor ~ most impt is show my face mah ~â€
……………………………………………………………….I’m really so sick of all these nonsense from her….
Thing between us has never been the same ever since I met my boyfriend last Nov. During the early days when we were dating, she is still excited and concerned about our development. Last Xmas eve, my boyfriend proposed and I accepted his proposal. When I told her the good news, she say that I’m rubbing salt to her wound by telling her about this on a Xmas eve when she is alone at home. Since then, she has never been kind with her words when its regarding my relationship. She will appear to be uninterested when I share with her on our development. Soon, I started to avoid this sensitive topic. Whenever my bf call me when I’m with her, she will be very impatient and can even shout out loud that “ask your bf dunnit to be so superglue and call and check your whereaboutsâ€etc…So I told my bf to try not to call me when we are together so we switched to SMS. She is also not happy with this and complain that I’m rude to sms others when we are out. This went on for a while till I feel that I’ve had enough of her nonsense. So I started to be cold to her. Now I only sms or email her once a while.
I’m holding my ROM next month. So I emailed her and ask her will she be coming to witness the ceremony. She replied that, she can’t promise yet because she dunno if she can be there on time or not as she needed time to doll up. Then she ask if she need to give me ang bao or gift or not. I said, its up to her but I tink ang bao will be more practical. Then she say I’m money faced and also say that gift is something for my keepsake. So, if she already have a gift in mind, she doesn’t have to ask me my preference and make sarcastic remarks right? So, I lose my patience and tell her, its really up to her. Even if she juz come without a gift, I’ll still be happy.
Her ultimate reply is “yah ~ juz come hor ~ most impt is show my face mah ~â€
……………………………………………………………….I’m really so sick of all these nonsense from her….