Asking on behalf of a friend. My friend is a "nice guy" , very modest and unassuming. He is a great friend willing to drop everything at last minute to help his friends. The problem is he's a bit soft so many people take advantage of him at work. That's the reason why even though he is brilliant at his work others take credit and he isn't promoted even after others more junior have. He's the type of guy when others feel unfair for him he will say never mind. (Not sure if he really minds) My friend recently got his first gf via online dating . I've met her a few times, she's petite, well dressed , woman of few words . So as a friend I was very happy for him because he finally got a gf . They have just dated past the 3 month mark but my friend is telling me he is starting to have problems. It seems like he has told his gf his frustrations at work including the fact that colleagues take advantage of him. She is very unhappy and thinks he is useless to be taken advantage like that. She told him she won't want to be with a useless man.Apparently her mom knows about this and agrees too. Also the crazy thing is she wants to get married by end of this year! My friend is not sure cos they only dated a few months and they quarreled over it and she broke up with him. Now he is thinking of going back to her begging her to take him back and agreeing to get married this year. I'm telling him not to. The girl obviously has contempt for him and to get married so soon? tldr: friend's three month ago gf calls him useless and yet wants to marry him this year. She broke up with him but he is thinking of giving in and agreeing to get married .