In a relationship, many problems occur cos one party dun trust the other. My encounters with two couples did move me cos their trust in each other is really really great...so great that I really want to trust my bf and future hubby just like they do for each other. Trust can really work wonders in a relationship. If one trusts his/her spouse, their marriage can really be strong and solid. Trust is really the golden key to a great marriage
First encounter:
I know this married church guy whom I work together on church stuff. We work in a group, but today there were only two of us in the room (at church). Then today I met his wife for the first time. And she was really warm and friendly, and she said that her hubby is a responsible and reliable guy with whom I will enjoy working with. The hubby was not around, but in my conversations with her, she made references to her hubby, and she was very comfortable with me working with her hubby. Her hubby is a good looking guy, retired army regular, and he is very rich. He works with both male and female church goers on church stuff, and spends alot of time in church. Yet she is never jealous and never throw a tantrum. He also behaves well. She will ask her hubby to make sure the young gals get to the mrt safe (our church is quite quiet and isolated at night) and she supports him fully in his church work. She does not treat women who speak to her hubby badly (unlike my bf's exwife)...other church workers also spoke well of her. They tell me how much she trusts her hubby. And I can see it so obviously. Some forumers may be sceptical, but I can she is very genuine and sincere. The wife can really trust the hubby and allow him to have his own life - he can have female friends, and she dun stop him in any way.
Second encounter:
Later at another church meeting, I met up with a couple. The wife gave me her hubby's hp number and told me that I can contact him to get the info I need as he is more heavily involved in the project (we are working on a project) then her. She seldom come to church too. And she is ok with me calling or msging her hubby when I need info. She told me I can do that. I can see she trusts her hubby. I mean, I am a single gal, and many pple mistake me as a PRC just because I have fair skin and black hair. But she did not fear anything and did not hestitate to give me her hubby's hp.
Women do have our insecurities, and we do get overcome with fears, thinking negatively and letting our imagination run wild. After reading so many sad stories in this forum, I was really happy to see sparks of trust in my real life encounters. And I told myself that my bf has really earned my trust so I should really let go of any negative thoughts or any fears that may come in any situation, and really trust him like the two ladies.
TRUST - a valuable word, yet many take for granted.
First encounter:
I know this married church guy whom I work together on church stuff. We work in a group, but today there were only two of us in the room (at church). Then today I met his wife for the first time. And she was really warm and friendly, and she said that her hubby is a responsible and reliable guy with whom I will enjoy working with. The hubby was not around, but in my conversations with her, she made references to her hubby, and she was very comfortable with me working with her hubby. Her hubby is a good looking guy, retired army regular, and he is very rich. He works with both male and female church goers on church stuff, and spends alot of time in church. Yet she is never jealous and never throw a tantrum. He also behaves well. She will ask her hubby to make sure the young gals get to the mrt safe (our church is quite quiet and isolated at night) and she supports him fully in his church work. She does not treat women who speak to her hubby badly (unlike my bf's exwife)...other church workers also spoke well of her. They tell me how much she trusts her hubby. And I can see it so obviously. Some forumers may be sceptical, but I can she is very genuine and sincere. The wife can really trust the hubby and allow him to have his own life - he can have female friends, and she dun stop him in any way.
Second encounter:
Later at another church meeting, I met up with a couple. The wife gave me her hubby's hp number and told me that I can contact him to get the info I need as he is more heavily involved in the project (we are working on a project) then her. She seldom come to church too. And she is ok with me calling or msging her hubby when I need info. She told me I can do that. I can see she trusts her hubby. I mean, I am a single gal, and many pple mistake me as a PRC just because I have fair skin and black hair. But she did not fear anything and did not hestitate to give me her hubby's hp.
Women do have our insecurities, and we do get overcome with fears, thinking negatively and letting our imagination run wild. After reading so many sad stories in this forum, I was really happy to see sparks of trust in my real life encounters. And I told myself that my bf has really earned my trust so I should really let go of any negative thoughts or any fears that may come in any situation, and really trust him like the two ladies.
TRUST - a valuable word, yet many take for granted.
