About the chiping in of money to buy a flat for pil, the rest of the siblings never initiate wanting to fork out money, they all expect my husband to foot everything. Pil got some savings but they want my husband to foot everything.
I told my husband that I am prepared to endure the tension rather than he fork out an astronomical sum to buy a house for them. So I told husband that I will complain lesser to him, I am prepared to endure for the sake of money.
Buying a house in Singapore is extremely expensive and with the new housing guidelines imposed, we have too many things to consider.
I concede that I am not a good Dil, but how to be good when Mil keep continuing her battle of words against me? She told me that last time my husband promised her he wont get married. I hear already in high dungeon, that promise was made before I met my husband, its very obvious my Mil dont like Dils, she perceive them as home wreckers, she also has problems with my other sil, but she hates me the most, as we stay together.
She tells me that ever since my husband marrys me, he gives her less money compared to the past he very generous.She say that a son filiality towards parents will depend on if the wife is good or not. Then last time my husband filial to her, she say nothing to do with me as he is filial by nature. Now her son less filial, she put all the blame on me.She said last time her son very generous towards her before he marry me, she say I brainwashed her son give her less money.
Her son good, its not my merit, her son bad, its my fault. She also tell me that the other son generous to her last time, after marriage less generous. Then she blame on dils.