Master David Tong's Advice Corner (Geomancy and Fengshui)

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meander

New Member
Hi Master Tong,

We are planning to hold our chinese customary this year or early 2012. Can i find out what are the auspicious dates for me to get married. We are also considering 5 June 2011.

Bride: Monkey Aug 1980
Groom: Rabbit Jan 1976

Bride's mum: Hen 1958
Bride's Dad: Monkey 1956

Groom's mum: Tiger 1950
Groom's dad: Pig 1947

Thank you for your advice.
 


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sands882

New Member
Hi Master Tong,
I'm looking at Dec 2011-Feb 2012 for our customary plus dinner. Can you please advice if there's any good weekend dates?

Groom: 31st Dec 1981
Groom's Dad: 1953
Groom's Mom: 1952

Bride: 3rd Sep 1982
Bride's Dad: 1951
Bride's Mom: 1953

Thanks alot!
 
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jtcl

New Member
Hi Master Tong

We are planning to marry Nov or Dec 2011.

Groom: Monkey
Bride: Ox
Bride's mum: Tiger

Pls suggest some good dates for us.

Thanks for your adv.
 
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cynzhang24

New Member
Hi Master Tong,

Is it true that married couple cannot invite a person who parents just pass away within a year to their wedding diner?

I got a girlfriend who father-in-law to be pass away in March. Now she and her boyfriend are rushing to get marry within three month. Can I be her jie mei and attend her wedding as I am getting marry in Oct.

My relative told me not to invite them to my wedding and not to attend their also.

Pls advice. Thanks you..
 
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cmg_consulting

Active Member
Hi godbird,

Both dates does not clash anyone, but i can't check if it will be a general tong shu good date or not till the tong shu is out in July/Aug period.

For Bazi Wedding Dates Consultation, it is part of my consultation service and i do charge for it, else will be unfair to my paying clients. Hope you understand
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cmg_consulting

cmg_consulting

Active Member
Hi meander

5th June 2011 is a general tong shu good date but this date clash Rooster, hence cannot be used.

Which mths you looking at for this year? For 2012, the tong shu is not out yet, hence the only way and correct way is use bazi to select.

Hope this helps
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cmg_consulting

Active Member
Hi Sandy

the groom is born Rooster yr hence 2011 rabbit yr clashes to him. The bride is born Dog yr, hence 2012 dragon yr clashes to you. Hence ideally you should do it in 2013 if possible
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Else you will need to pick a date accoriding to bazi to make sure the date is really good for you, and not just a generic tong shu good date which may turn out to be bad if the date and bazi are not compatible.
 
cmg_consulting

cmg_consulting

Active Member
Hi Cynthia

U can invite, BUT by right they themselves should not attend any wedding within 1 yr and they should reject your invitation. this is a respect for the deceased.

you can attend her wedding/be jie mei so long as your wedding and hers are more than 3 (or 4 months depending on your parents belief) months apart.

Hope this helps
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glitzger

New Member
Hi Master Tong,

I understand that the Year of Snake clashes for those born in the year of Pig. Me and HTB are both pigs but would like to plan for wedding in 2013 as 2012 is too soon and 2014 is too far. Is there something we can do to still proceed with our wedding in 2013?

Thanks!
 
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evillin32

New Member
Hi Master Tong,

Can you kindly advise what are the suitable dates for us? We are looking at end this year or early next year (feb 2012)

Groom: 1976
Groom's dad: 1925
Groom's mum: 1937

Bride: 1980
Bride's dad: 1954
Bride's mum: 1956

Thanx so much!!
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lilian1802

New Member
Hi Master Tong,

Need your kind assistance in providing some advice here..
We are looking at 10th November 2012 (Saturday)for our customary plus dinner. Can you please advice if it is a generally good/auspicious date for marriage?

Groom: 11th Jan 1984 (Year of: PIG)
Groom's Dad: 20th Dec 1957 (Year of: ROOSTER)
Groom's Mom: 01st October 1958 (Year of: DOG)


Bride: 18th Feb 1984 (Year of: RAT)
Bride's Dad: 29th April 1956 (Year of: MONKEY)
Bride's Mom: 16th October 1957 (Year of: ROOSTER)

Thanks alot! =)
 
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hipopo

New Member
Dear Master Tong,
1) Do you feng-shui analysis service for new house (planning & advice needed BEFORE renovation) & what are the charges like?
2) Dunno if you can help abt An-Chuang: Our new house will come in late 2012. Meanwhile, after our customary -
a) Can we don’t do the whole An-chuang thingy until our new house arrive? Meaning, is it a must to sleep in An-chuang bed immediately after customary?
b) If we choose to An-Chuang in MIL’s house with a new double-bed, & when new house arrive (a yr later), is it a must to shift the “An-chuang†bed over to the new house? or is it not necessary?
c) Can the bride don’t stay with the MIL & her husband after customary & contd to live in her own mother’s house until new house arrive?

Thnks much.
 
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wiggly

New Member
Hi Master Tong,

Can you kindly advise what are the suitable dates for us? We are looking at either 7 Nov 2011 or 13 Nov 2011.

Groom: Jan 1973 (RAT)
Groom's dad: PIG
Groom's step mum: RAT

Bride: 1971 (PIG)
Bride's mum: RABBIT

Thanks in advance
 
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loveforever

New Member
Hi Master Tong,

I would like to check with you, we've booked our ROM date on 22 Oct 2011.

Please check whether this date is a good day for us.

Groom: 1974 (Year of Tiger)
Bride: 1979 (Year of Goat)

Groom's dad: 1942 (Year of Horse)

Bride's dad: 1951 (Year of Rabbit)
Bride's step mom: 1954 (Year of Horse)

Thanks very much in advance
 
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meander

New Member
Thank you Master Tong. Can u advise what are the suitable dates for us to get married between Aug to Nov 2011?

Bride: Monkey Aug 1980
Groom: Rabbit Jan 1976

Bride's mum: Hen 1958
Bride's Dad: Monkey 1956

Groom's mum: Tiger 1950
Groom's dad: Pig 1947
 
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smileysq

New Member
Hi Master Tong,
please help me check an auspicious date in 2011.
We are looking at 121111.
Bride -Pig
Groom - Dog

Bride's parents: horse and horse both (1954)
groom's dad: rooster (1933)
groom's mum: dog (1934)

We are also contemplating other dates in early part of Nov or Early December or in Jan 2012.

Kindly advise us on the suitable dates for us.

Your help is GREATLY APPRECIATED Master Tong!

THANK U!
 
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beautillusion

New Member
Hi Master Tong,

We are planning to hold our wedding in Nov/Dec of 2012 or between Jan- Mar 2013.

Is the year of snake, i.e. 2013 suitable for us to get married? Or will 2012 (end) be better?

Groom: Nov 1984 (Rat)
Bride: Oct 1985 (ox)

Grooms Dad: Rooster
Grooms Mum: Dog

Brides Dad: Rat
Brides Mum: Rabbit

Which would be the best dates to get married?

Also, if we don't have the groom's time of birth, will we be able to calculate the bazi?

Thanks, really appreciate your help!
 
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beautillusion

New Member
By the way, we are thinking of 11 Nov 2012 or 29 or 30 dec 2012 or weekends in Jan-Mar 2013
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do let us know if there are suitable dates. Thanks!
 
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raspberrii

New Member
Hi Master Tong,

My fiance's parents had engaged a shifu to pick a date for us and we supplied him with our Ba Zi, horoscopes and such. However, he did not ask for his and my parents' horoscopes.

And so, our actual day was decided to be on 15th December 2011. However, we found out that that day actually clashes with dog (both my fiance and father are born in the year of dog).

But the shifu said that that day only clashes with those that are born in the dog year of 1959 (which is my father), and it will only clash when the bride jin men into the groom's family (meaning my father won't be present there to clash).

May I ask whether 15th December 2011 is a good day for my fiance and I to get married? Here are our details:

Groom: 31st Jan 1982 (Dog)
Groom's father: Chicken 1945
Groom's mother: Cow 1949

Bride: 2nd December 1986 (Tiger)
Bride's father: Dog 1959
Bride's mother: Rat 1961

The shifu has also chosen 23rd October 2011 for our Guo Da Li, is it unusual to have the Guo Da Li more than a month before the actual day?

Lastly, we've chosen 2nd July 2011 for our ROM. Is the day suitable?

Sorry for the many questions but I've been quite worried and frustrated over the picking of dates. I hope Master Tong would be able to help us, thank you so so much!
 
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ling08

New Member
Hi Master Tong,

we are planning to get married next year, 2012.

Will it be suitable?

Groom: Ox
Groom's father: Dog
Groom's mother: Monkey

Bride: Dog
Bride's father: Dog
Bride's mother: Pig

many thanks!
 
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spoty

New Member
Hi Master Tong,
Please can you advice if we choose 24 June 2012 for our weddng date, would it be ok? also is there such a thing that people should not get married in June as they say its in the middle of the year and marriage will be broken?

Bride: Rat
Groom: Rat

Bride's mum: Dog
Bride's dad: Monkey

Groom's mum: Rooster
Groom's dad: Horse

Really appreciate your advice as we are torn on the dates as 1 side's parents are insistent that we should not hold our wedding in June because of the superstition. If this date is no good, can you kindly suggest other dates? Many thankss!
 
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damoiselle

New Member
Hi Master Tong,

I am looking at the date 12.12.12 for our ROM. Would appreciate if you can advise whether the date is auspicious for us or not.

Bride: Jan 1985 (rat/ox)
Groom: Apr 1983 (pig)

Bride's mum: pig
Bride's dad: ox

Groom's mum: ox
Groom's dad: rooster

Thanks!
 
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cmg_consulting

Active Member
Hi Eileen Quek

the 2012 tong shu is not out yet, hence i can't give any 2012 dates yet. The only way to select is using bazi.

Can you provide the animal zodiac signs of everyone instead of the year? As year alone I cannot determine the animal signs...(born in jan or dec is different sign).
 
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cmg_consulting

Active Member
Hi Lilian Lim

This date clashes to Pig and none of you are born in Pig yr. However, to check if it is a general good date or not will have to wait till the tong shu is out in July/Aug period

Hope this helps
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cmg_consulting

Active Member
Hi Hipopo,

See my replies below:

1) Do you feng-shui analysis service for new house (planning & advice needed BEFORE renovation) & what are the charges like?

Yes of course. That is my core service. For the rates and more info, pls drop me an email at [email protected]

2) Dunno if you can help abt An-Chuang: Our new house will come in late 2012. Meanwhile, after our customary -
a) Can we don’t do the whole An-chuang thingy until our new house arrive? Meaning, is it a must to sleep in An-chuang bed immediately after customary?

No. An Chuang is meant for wedding purpose. It is our chinese wedding customs. If after wedding, no pt doing anymore. Even if you don't stay together after wedding, still have to do at groom's side (or whichever side you sleeping at) for symbolic purpose.

b) If we choose to An-Chuang in MIL’s house with a new double-bed, & when new house arrive (a yr later), is it a must to shift the “An-chuang†bed over to the new house? or is it not necessary?

It is not necessary. U can get a new bed again.

c) Can the bride don’t stay with the MIL & her husband after customary & contd to live in her own mother’s house until new house arrive?

this is up to your personal preference. There is no right or wrong answer. We r in the 21st century already, so long as everyone is happy, staying apart does not break a marriage
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Hope this helps
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cmg_consulting

Active Member
Hi Love

That day clashes to Dragon, hence none of you. Some tong shu list this date as good for wedding, some not. Hence generaly it is an ok date in general. If it fits both your bazi , it will be perfect.

Note that bazi is not taken into consideration yet as a good date in the tong shu can still be deemed as inauspicious if the date and both your bazi are not compatible.
 
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cmg_consulting

Active Member
Hi meander

Aug is 7th mth, Sep is a bad month for wedding, hence the dates will be from Oct onwards

- 18/10, 30/10, 3/11, 9/11, 12/11, 21/11, 24/11

Hope this helps
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cmg_consulting

Active Member
Hi smileysq

12/11/2011 is a general tong shu good date for wedding. Doesn't clash anyone (clash to Ox).

Note that bazi is not taken into consideration yet as a good date in the tong shu can still be deemed as inauspicious if the date and both your bazi are not compatible.
 
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cmg_consulting

Active Member
Hi Summer

Both yrs are ok as they don't clash to your. If you want to fine tune which is the best yr, will have to check both your bazi. Year alone cannot tell this.

I need the time of birth for the bazi, Can get from birth cert. If no time of birth, may or may not be able to calculate, i need to see the birthday to determine that.

The 2012 tong shu is not out yet till July/Aug this year. The only way to calculate 2012 dates will be using Bazi. For 2013 dates, i will start the calculation this coming June/July period.

For the 2012 dates you mentioned, all the dates don't clash to your. But will have to wait for tong shu to be out first to check for general good dates.
 
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evillin32

New Member
Hi Master Tong, the dates are as below:

Groom: 18 Feb 1976
Groom's Dad: 29 March 1925
Groom's Mum: 27 Feb 1937

Bride: 10 June 1980
Bride's Dad: 26 March 1954
Bride's Mum: 25 Nov 1956
 
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cmg_consulting

Active Member
Hi Yvonne

To me, clash means clash. That day 15/12 indeed clashes to Dog, and since Groom and Bride's dad are Dog, this day should not even be picked in the first place! There are 364 days more, why pick this date that clashes? If you ask me, i don't recommend this date due to the clashes.

Guo da Li is normally 2 weeks to 1 month before wedding (unless your parents want to do it earlier).

For ROM, 2/7 clashes to Rat, which is bride's mum, hence not a good date as well.

Hope this helps. No worries, i can understand the frustration.
 
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cmg_consulting

Active Member
Hi Mabel

That date clashes to Dog, hence not suitable to be used.

Question - also is there such a thing that people should not get married in June as they say its in the middle of the year and marriage will be broken?

[David] - No such thing. I don't buy this superstition as there is no logical basis for it. Maybe you can ask them which is a better month? 8th or 9th lunar mth (as these are the most popular mths for elderly)? Then isn't this no good too since it is 3/4 husband and wife? Then does it mean everyone got to get married in Dec for a "full" marriage? Hope you get what i mean
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But then, wedding is complicated, political and involves whole family. If your parents insist on that, still have to do it to make them happy...but i want you to be clear there is no such thing in feng shui
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The 2012 tong shu is not out yet till July. Hence the only way is to use bazi, which is also the correct method as tong shu is generic and for mass consumption only.
 
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godbirdie

New Member
Hi Master Tong
i found the auspicious dates for 2012 has been out in some websites.How is it possible and different from the one you mentioned out in Jul 2012?
 
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damoiselle

New Member
Thanks Master Tong. I'm a rat then. Since 12.12.12 is not a good date for us, could you advise any dates/months which is auspicious for our wedding? Thanks!
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putty1234

New Member
Hi Master Tong,

I am planning to have my rom and wedding lunch on either 1 Jan 2012, 2 Jan 2012 or 12 feb 2012.

Can you pls help to advise are those dates generally good/ auspicious/bad date for us?

Bride: 1984 rat
Bride mum: 1955 goat
Bride dad: 1954 horse

Groom: 1982 dog
Groom mum: 1950 tiger
Groom dad: 1949 cow

Thanks
 
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shiyin

New Member
Dear Master Kong,

I am planning to have my wedding on the 9th june 2012.

can you please advise whether it is a good date for us? and what is a good time for the groom to fetch the bride, as in what time should we reach the guys side?

bride: 1982 dog
bride mum: 1951 tiger
bride dad: 1948 rat

groom: 1983 boar
groom mum: 1953 snake
groom dad: 1955 goat

Thanks
 
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lovers0206

New Member
Hi Master Tong,

need ur advice on the following:

1. We'll be collecting our keys tomorrow afternoon from HDB and is thinking to go open up to check the flat for any defects, etc.
a) Is tomorrow (13 April) a good day to open the door to our new flat? If not, pls advice when the soonest we can go.

b) What are the things to bring and do during this opening?

2. Our wedding will be on 19 June'11, if by then the renovation is completed,
a) when is a good day/ time to An-Chuang? And what are the procedure of An-Chuang?

b) the first nite we sleep in the flat (after our wedding), what procedure should we do before stepping in?

Bride: Monkey (1980)
Groom: Horse (1978)
 
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gracyy

New Member
Hi Master Tong,

Understand that this coming Lunar 8th month is a "Sui Po" which means the month clashes with the Year as explained in your previous posts.

May I know what will happen if couple were to go ahead to get married in Sept 2011? What are the consequences?

Thank You.
 
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raspberrii

New Member
Master Tong,

Thank you for answering my queries! As 15th Dec clashes with both the groom and father, would it be okay if I hold the wedding dinner on 15th Dec, but choose another earlier date for our tea ceremony and such? It doesn't matter for the wedding dinner, right? May I ask whether there are any dates suitable before 15th Dec to hold our tea ceremony and such?

I've gone to your website and read an article about animal zodiac sign. The article mentioned that a zodiac sign is based on Li Chun, which usually falls on the 4th or 5th Feb. Since my fiance was born on the 7th day of Chinese New Year (31st January 1982), he was deemed to be born in the year of dog (as it's after the 1st day of CNY). However, after reading the article, I realised that basing your zodiac sign on whether you're born before or after the 1st day of CNY is wrong. Therefore, I was wondering whether my fiance could actually be a rooster instead of dog?! If he's a rooster, the date 15th Dec would not clash with him then! (will still clash with my father though)

Sorry for my long-windedness and thank you in advance!
 


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smileysq

New Member
Thank you so much MASTER TONG... Btw, may i check if 6 nov 2011 or 15 Jan 2012 is also ok? Due to no hotel availability.

Bride -Pig
Groom - Dog

Bride's parents: horse and horse both (1954)
groom's dad: rooster (1933)
groom's mum: dog (1934)

FOR ROM we are looking at possibly 08Nov11 which is also the bride's bday.

I will consult my mum and will contact you again when we want to do the BAZI.

Thanks alot, look fwd to your reply.
 
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