I heard from my friend that November 2010 is a month breaker (the 10th month in lunar calendar) and it's bad to have a wedding during that whole month.
Is this true? It doesn't seem to be mentioned in any website that have the auspicious dates listing.
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Is your tea ceremony and fetch the bride on the 23rd? And your ROM on the 23rd Oct too? If everything is on the 23rd, and 24th is just a banquet dinner, you can still choose a good date if you want to (no harm doing so ..), but not so critical anymore since nothing "major" is on the 24th Oct.
This date is a general tong shu good date for wedding and clash to Rat. Since none of you are born in yr of the Rat (bride's dad not counted as he already passed away), generally it is ok to use this day.
Note that Bazi is not taken into consideration yet. Hope this helps
Here are some general dates you can use for renovation (note that the direction of the house is not taken into consideration, which by right should be as that is the proper method of selecting dates...)
- 12/11, 17/11, 21/11, 05/12, 06/12, 11/12
You can use these dates for either one or both renovations together. it is the same
Once you decide which day you want to do it, let me know and i can advise you the timing.
Would like to check with you, eventhough we do not need our siblings and grandparents' birthdate and year for the calculation for a good wedding date. But if the date chosen clashed with either one of them, what can be done?
Heard that for those who clashed with the wedding date, it is better for them to avoid the whole wedding activities and attend the banquet only. But siblings and grandparents are people close to us, it would not be right to exclude them from this impt occasion. Is there anyway to go around it? Thanks.
6 Mar 2010 - Not a general tong shu good date for wedding
13 Mar 2010 - Not a ideal day for wedding
24 Apr 2010 - Not a general tong shu good date for wedding
1 May 2010 - Clash to Snake. Cannot use.
8 May 2010 - Clash with Rat. Cannot use.
Hence none of these dates are suitable. Hope this helps
For those who clash, they have to "hide" before the groom steps into the house. After the groom steps in, they can come out. They can still be around during the morning wedding activities.
It is impossible to include them coz if you have 3 siblings, your spouse have 3 sibling, plus parents from both sides, plus 2 of you, and all of you have different animal signs, then all 12 signs clashes...which means you don't have to get married already
Just to check, we have actually ROM and the dates we wanted to get is mainly for the usual chinese customary like gatecrashing,fetch bride, tea ceremony,etc. So isn't very critical to have good date for this customary since all the dates we provided are not suitable and we have also ROM (which is already considered married)?
If is critical, what are the dates (saturday only) you will recommend taking into account ours and our parents' chinese zodiac?
Thanks for your reply..
We need your help again..after discussing it with my bf's parents, it turns out that they want the wedding to be on saturday in either September or October 2010.
Is there any good Saturday within these months that doesnt clash with us?
Here is our details:
Lunar DOB: 22 07 1984
I hope to get a good date for both customary and wedding banquet together on the same day next year. The months preferred are November or December. If both months not suitable, can select a best date for us? Considered date is 12/11/2010
Really appreciate your help.
In that case, is there any other weekends i can wed and rom in September 2010? If not, can you advise on which weekdays from Oct to Dec 2010 are good wedding dates?
Also, I forgot to say that we are planning to have (1) a chinese banquet and (2) an english civil ceremony incl. reception/dinner on different days, but preferably on consecutive days. 2 needs to fall on a weekend and 1 can be either friday, saturday, sunday or monday.