Master David Tong's Advice Corner (Geomancy and Fengshui)

gin

New Member
Dear Master Tong,
I dropped you an sms juz now.
I juz wan to check whether does the banquet date has to be an auspicious day?
Can we do the customary on an auspicious date and banquet on the other?
 


gin

New Member
Hi Thomas,
Thanks alot for informing me!
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w3ngal

New Member
Dear Master Tong

Kindly advise me for dates after June 2011, are there any good dates for marriage (annual dinner with signing of certificate on the same day). I am looking at weekend, prefer sunday.

Groom: Rat (1984)
Groom dad: Monkey
Groom Mum: Rat

Bride: Cow (1985)
Bride dad: Cow
Bride Mum: Rabbit

Thanks for your kind advise.
 

cmg_consulting

Active Member
Hi dreamz,

Which mth are you looking at?

By the way, for renovation dates, the direction of the house has to be taken into consideration. This is VERY important as a bad date can cause negaive feng shui impact to your house. A good tong shu date is insufficient and 90% of the time,it will be wrong (coz the tong shu does not take into consideration the direction of the house and the couples birth data).

And you cannot take the direction yourself as it has to be taken using a luo pan and also the proper way to determine the facing of the house.

In any cas, if you still want to do it the tong shu way, let me know roughly when (which month) you want to carry out both activites. All the animal signs for ALL the occupants staying in the house needs to be provided too.

Hope this helps
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cmg_consulting

Active Member
Hi Gas,

Siblings animal signs is not required.

For Aug/Sep 2010 here are some dates you can use:

- 01/08, 12/09, 18/09, 25/09

Note that these are general dates only and both your bazi are not taken into consideration yet.A good date in the tong shu can still be considered inauspicious for both of you if the date is compatible with both your Bazi

Hope this helps
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cmg_consulting

Active Member
Hi Faith Chua,

I need your parents animal signs as well.

And i need to know which month you intend to do your wedding.

The tong shu for 2011 is not out yet,so i can't provide you with general tong shu dates for 2011. It will be out sometime in July/Aug 2010. The only way and accurate way to do it now will be using Bazi to select.

Hope this helps.
 

cmg_consulting

Active Member
Hi meemohsah,

I need your parents' animal signs as well.

And remmeber to repost everything again in your next post coz if there are lots of postings, i will take a long time to search for previous post
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cmg_consulting

Active Member
Hi Jessica,

30th Oct 2010 is not a general tong shu auspicious date. It clash to Goat, which is none of you. If the date is compatible with both your Bazi, it can still be used and considered a good date.

Hope this helps
 

cmg_consulting

Active Member
Hi Sheena Chan,

20th Feb 2011 clash to Rat, which is none of you

But the tong shu is not out yet, so i can't advise you if it is a general tong shu good date till it is out next yr Jul/Aug period. The only way to do it now is using Bazi to select the dates and check if that is a good date.

Hope this helps :
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cmg_consulting

Active Member
Hi Michelle,

As much as i want to help you for 2011 general tong shu auspicious dates,the tong shu for 2011 won't be out till Jul/Aug period next year 2010. So if you want only general dates, i can only help you after it is out next year. The only way and right way to do it nowwill be using Bazi to select the dates.

FYI, a good date in the tong shu can still be considered bad if the date is not compatible with both your Bazi.

Hope this helps
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cmg_consulting

Active Member
Hi Wind,

Your elderly is right. Your cannot attend each other's wedding. By right, siblings should not get married on the same year. If you really must, some 'cheat' by doing it in different calendar years AND at least 3 months apart. 3 months before and after your wedding, you cannot attend other's wedding, funerals or child birth. Same for your bro. which is why your cannot attend each other's wedding..

Hope this helps.
 

cmg_consulting

Active Member
Hi Yve,

3rd Oct is not an ideal date for wedding. Other better dates can be chosen. Here are some general dates you can use:

- 07/10, 20/10, 23/10, 4/11, 13/11, 24/11, 25/11, 1/12, 7/12, 18/12, 26/12,

Note that both your Bazi is not taken into consideration yet and these are general dates only

Hope this helps
 

cmg_consulting

Active Member
Hi Gin,

I just replied your email
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I am oversea now till 25th Oct, and i have limited internet access here,so i may not be able to reply emails as fast as i want to be.

I am on other side of the world and it is late at night now, snowing and freezing, not that i am waking up at 5am in SG to reply all the posts here
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cmg_consulting

Active Member
Hi w3n,

As much as i want to help you for 2011 general tong shu auspicious dates,the tong shu for 2011 won't be out till Jul/Aug period next year 2010. So if you want only general dates, i can only help you after it is out next year. The only way and right way to do it nowwill be using Bazi to select the dates.

FYI, a good date in the tong shu can still be considered bad if the date is not compatible with both your Bazi.

Hope this helps
 

syps

New Member
Thanks Master Tong.

So I will have to give you the ba zi of my parents and me & hubby? or just the zodiac will do?
 

daydream99

New Member
Hello Master Tong,

Guess we would need to go the Tong Shu way.
It is for renovating master toilet.
The months would be Oct and Nov as we are getting married in Jan.

Also, good date and time for fixing ceiling fan and also curtain rods (weekend if possible)in Nov or Dec 2009. Can be different or same day. Date to be after renovation (approx 10 days) although if need, we can do them concurrently.

Couple occupying the house would be : Rooster and Snake

Thanks once again

Regards
Day
 

gin

New Member
Wow...thanks alot...i received ur email...
u r SO RESPONSIBLE!
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Enjoy your holiday! :p

p.s i replied with one more scenario! :p
 

meowho

New Member
Hi Master Tong,

Can you please help to advise the good dates to get married in first half of 2010? Preferably after Chinese New Year.

Bride to Be: Ox (1985)
Bride's mum: Rabbit (1964)
Bride's Father: Dog (1958)

Groom to Be: Snake (1977)
Groom's mum: Snake (1953)
Groom's dad: Snake (1941)- deceased

Thank you!
 

w3ngal

New Member
Dear Master Tong

Thanks for advise. Ermmm which means if i want the dinner after june 2011, it would be good to wait for the tong shu to be out by next year in august

Ermmmm cause i see some couples starting to book their banquet for 2011 thus checking with you.

If we meet up wth you for the consultation (the wedding package u offer at $100), i only need to go to you next yr august (since the tong shu is not out)?

Thanks!
 

starfrost

New Member
hi Master Tong,

My friend is getting married less than 3 months before me.. and most likely I would have to attend.. What can be done? thanks
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pinkglove

New Member
hi Master Tong,I'm anticipating the same prob as starfrost too. Me and best friend will be having our wedding probably within 3 mths of each other. We are going to be each other's Jie Meis too. What can be done too?
 

hellogirl

New Member
Hi Master Tong,

Can you please help to advise on the good dates for wedding and ROM in Oct-Dec 20010 weekend?

Bride: Rooster(1981)
Bride's dad: Dog (1946)
Bride's mum: Rat (1948)

Groom: Goat (1980)
Groom's dad: Dragon (1952)
Groom's mum: Goat (1956)

Thanks!
 

gin

New Member
Dear all,
I want to say a BIG THANK YOU to Master TONG for taking time off from his holiday to reply my email! This is so IMPRESSIVE~!
I engaged him for my house fengshui and wedding dates in march or april this year. And now is OCT, and he is STILL SO helpful to answer my query thru email or SMS!
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For those who are considering getting him to help, be assured that your money is well spent! No regrets on this!!

Well Done Master TONG~!! *CHEERS* :D
 

tiffbubbs

New Member
Hello Master Tong, I am thinking of having my wedding on June 16th or 17th of 2010. Can you please tell me whether either of these 2 days are auspicious or not.

Bride: Tiger (1974)
Groom: Tiger (1974)
 

thommy

New Member
starfrost/pinkglove: hi there...I don't think there's anything you can do other than to avoid going to their wedding unless you don't mind having a clash ('chong xi'). They are getting married themselves too, so I'm sure they will understand.

for your info I am in the same situation too, I have a buddy who's getting married next year also but I can't attend as his wedding is about 2mths earlier than mine.
 

bubbly_bubbles

New Member
Hi Master Tong, my fiance and I are thinking of holding our soleminzation and customary wedding on the same day. Pls advise if there's any good dates between Apr - Sep 2010.

Groom: Dragon (1976)
Groom's Mum: Tiger (1950)
Groom's Dad: Cow (1950)

Bride: Snake (1977)
Bride's Mum: Horse (1954)
Bride's Dad: Rabbit (1951)

Thanks.
 

cmg_consulting

Active Member
Hi Dreamz,

For tong shu reno dates, can you post this thread again on 26th Oct? Coz i am overseas now till 25th Oct, and i don't have the tong shu with me for now as i don't normally mark out the general auspicious renovation dates on my calendar.
 

cmg_consulting

Active Member
Hi Gin,

haha yup i am enjoying my holidays
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Thanks for your comments here. I hope you've managed to work out your other scenario successfully and keep me updated
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cmg_consulting

Active Member
Hi meowmeow,

Here are some general dates you can use for 2010(after CNY):

- 3/3, 8/3, 18/3, 15/5, 16/5, 24/5, 29/5, 05/06, 09/06, 17/6, 29/6

Hope this helps
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Note that Bazi is not taken into the calculation yet. this is a 'general' date only.
 

cmg_consulting

Active Member
Hi w3n,

Yes there are already many booking their banquet for 2011 now. In, fact, I've already done lots of cases for couples who are going for 2011 dates and most of them already booked their banquet venues.

I select all dates using Bazi, not Tong Shu. Using bazi to select dates does not require you to wait for tong shu to come out. Bazi date selection are dates that are selected specifically good for both of you only, and no one else. Tong Shu date selection is for mass consumption only and most of the time, it is not accurate coz it did not take both your Bazi into consideration.

So for those couples you know already booking for 2011 dates, most likely they got their dates selected via this method. And yes, by the time the tong shu is out nexr year July/Aug period, it will be too late to book 2011 dates..most likely only a few dates are left.

Hope this helps
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cmg_consulting

Active Member
Hi starfrost & pinkglove,

You just have to avoid it coz if you attend, your luck will be clashed. You cannot do anything to avoid it, except to avoid going.

FYI, this is a Chinese belief/superstition. So it is up to you if you want to follow or not. Generally i will advise to follow since wedding is an important event (and i am sure you don't want anything to go wrong..) and it is not hard to do; and i am sure your friend will understand your situation since she herself is getting married too.
 

cmg_consulting

Active Member
Hi hellogirl,

For Oct 2010 weekends, only 23rd Oct is a general tong shu good date for wedding, but this date clash with Rat, so you cannot use it as it is your mum's zodiac signs.

U may want to change your month to wed or do it on weekdays.
 

cmg_consulting

Active Member
Hi Vivias,

Here are some general tong shu dates you can use:

- 15/5, 16/5, 31/5, 09/6, 11/06, 21/06, 03/07, 16/7, 28/7, 12/9, 16/9, 24/9, 25/9, 28/9

Note that Bazi is not taken into consideration yet.

Hope this helps
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w3ngal

New Member
Hi master tong, thanks! i have a clearer picture now. So i may go to you for the wedding packge sometime around Jan - Mar next yr since i prefer the more accurate method which is using the bazhi.

so what should we bring along during the consult?

Your package comes with a ROM date, i dont need this as i prefer signing the marriage agreement on the same day. This is possible?

How much is the eternity package?

thanks!
 

wakeup2asmile

New Member
Hi Master Tong,

We would need your advise on whether 04 Jan 2010 wld be a good day for ROM.

Our zodiac signs are as follows:

Groom: Monkey
Bride: Horse
Bride's Mum: Horse
Groom's Parents: Mum & Dad (Rabbit)

Thank you!
 

cmg_consulting

Active Member
Hi w3n,

Can you drop me an email at [email protected] and I will advise you on what are the information i need prior to meeting up, as well as more info about the Eternity Package.

Yes, for the wedding date selection, you can choose whether to do ROM and AD same day or different day. It will be part of the list of info i require prior to meeting up. Will let you know via email.

Thanks
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cmg_consulting

Active Member
Hi Jen,

This date will clash to Monkey, which is the groom, so this date is not advisable for ROM.

7th Jan 2010 will be the nearest date to your original date you can use. It is a general good day and don't clash to any of you (clash to Pig).

Hope this helps
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cantigal

New Member
Hi Master Tong,

My husband and I would like to hold our customary wedding around Nov - Dec 2010. Pls advise if there's any good dates between these months.

Groom: Horse (1978)
Groom's Mum: Pig
Groom's Dad: Rat

Bride: Dog (1982)
Bride's Mum: Snake
Bride's Dad: Rabbit

Many thanks!
 


syps

New Member
Hi Master Tong,

Below are our ba zi for the 2011 dates. I understand you will need this as the tong shu isn't out yet.

Thanks!

Bride: 甲å­å¹´ 正月 åå…­
Groom: 辛西年 五月 å一

Bride's Mum: ä¸è¥¿å¹´ 八月 二å五
Bride's Dad: 丙甲年 六月 å五

Groom's Mum: 癸己年 七月 二åå››
Groom's Dad: 乙末年 四月 åˆå…«

hope this above is enough
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thanks alot!
 

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