Hi Yve,
3rd Oct is not an ideal date for wedding. Other better dates can be chosen. Here are some general dates you can use:
- 07/10, 20/10, 23/10, 4/11, 13/11, 24/11, 25/11, 1/12, 7/12, 18/12, 26/12,
Note that both your Bazi is not taken into consideration yet and these are general dates only
Hope this helps