Master David Tong's Advice Corner (Geomancy and Fengshui)

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chowie

New Member
Hi David,

My HTB was born in the year of 1979 21 st of jan so not sure is a year of goat or horse and I was born in the year of dog 15/06/1982. We had plan to get married on 21/02/2009 which is our tea cermony and dinner at 22/02/09 just two mths more to go. Is it a good day for us ?

Well... this is the date that was chosen by our previous Shifu but somehow he is no longer been contacted. However, we are rather worried because we not yet know our Guo Da Li, installing the bridal bed etc. Anyway, can you mail me your quotation thru this [email protected]

Hope to hear from you soon! Thanks alot.
 


cmg_consulting

cmg_consulting

Active Member
Hi Heidi,

Your HTB was born in the yr of the Horse. 21/02/09 is a general good Tong Shu date for wedding. 22/02/09 is not a Tong shu date for wedding purpose. I can't advise whether if it is a good day for both of you without seeing your Bazi.

I've sent you the quotation. Thanks and Happy New Year Heidi.
 
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wifey_vicky

New Member
Hi David,

My HTB and me are now looking for a date for our ROM solemnisation. It will be a small party held at chalet bungalow. But most of the chalet only allow us to book 3 months in advance. And the bungalow is actually very popular, so most of the Mar & Apr weekend already fully booked.

So we have to choose another date. So we are looking at May or Jun 09. But my future MIL is saying these 2 months are not good for ROM, and unhappy with us to choosing date on these 2 months.

Please advise. And looking forward to hear from you soon. Thanks. =)
 
cmg_consulting

cmg_consulting

Active Member
Hi Wifey Vicky,

There is no such thing as you cannot get married in May or Jun 09. The elder people believe that you cannot get married in the middle of the year because both you and your spouse will be "half husband half wife".

However, this is just a myth. There is definitely no such thing, so do not worry about it. There is no logic to this "theory" or belief. In Chinese Metaphysics, there is only one month that is not good for marriage, which is the month that clashes with the year. This is the month that I will avoid in wedding dates selection.

But, sometimes it is hard to convince the elderly, so whenever possible, in order to please them, I will advise you to choose months they are happy with. End of the day, this is your wedding day and should be a happy event
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Hope this helps and have a Happy New Year
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faultgal

New Member
Hi David,

May I check with you, as my HTB's younger brother hold his wedding during Sep 09 and our wedding will be on Jan 2010 during the lunar year of 2009 can it be done ? How many months should we hold the customary apart in order to attend each other ceremony and not to "cong" each other?

Thanks, appreciate your reply!
 
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cocosweet

New Member
Hi david,
May i check with you if Oct 10 2009 is a good day for marriage? both my hubby and me are born in the year of rooster.
 
cmg_consulting

cmg_consulting

Active Member
Hi Ping,

For siblings, it is believed that they should not hold their wedding on the same year.

Strictly from the perspective of Chinese Metaphysics, there is no such rule. This is a Chinese belief.

By right, it should be at least 12 months (1 year) apart.

Hope this helps.
 
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faultgal

New Member
Hi David,

In that case, it is not possible to hold the two wedding within the year or it is just a chinese belief ? As some forum say it is ok within 3 months. If we do it, is it the second couple are not good ?
What about as i am born in the monkey year, it is that i cannot marry in the tiger year ? Sorry for some many questions.
 
cmg_consulting

cmg_consulting

Active Member
Hi Ping,

This is a Chinese belief. By right, according to Chinese belief, siblings should not hold their wedding within 1 year or on the same year. However, there are some who "cheat" a little by holding it on different years based on the lunar calendar.

Frankly, we cannot "measure" whether the first or second couple is no good. There are no recorded facts about it. As they are siblings, the best is to avoid since whether if it is the first or second couple that is no good, we do not wish either to happen.

Yes you are right. If you born in the Monkey year, you are advised not to marry in the Tiger year. if you must, do it before 4th Feb 2010. It still belongs to the year of the Ox.

Hope this helps.
 
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cocosweet

New Member
Hi david, is it a general auspicious day on Dec 26 for marriage? both of us are born in year of rooster, and our parents are born in year of OX and tiger/rat and dragon.
thanks!
 
cmg_consulting

cmg_consulting

Active Member
Hi coco lee,

It is not a good day for marriage.

For Dec 09, you can try 6th or 13th Dec 09. They are general good days and don't clash to you.

Hope this helps.
 
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christinatyt

New Member
Hi David,

can you provide some comments on the following dates. Many Thanks

AD: 21.11.09
Dinner: 22.11.09
Bride & Groom: Year of the Pig
Groom parents: Year of the Pig & Year of the Monkey
Bride parents: Year of the Tiger and Year of the Goat
 
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iluvpopcorn

New Member
Dear David,

I m the female born in the year of horse, and my partner is in the year of pig, we are planning to hold a wedding in year 2010 between Jan-March but just came to realise that its the year of tiger which some ppl say its not recommended for weddings.

Please advise. Thx
 
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maisie

New Member
Hi David, can you advise an auspicious date for my wedding in early 2010?
Bride: Rat
Groom Pig
Mum: Pig
Mum in law: Dragon
Sisters: Monkey & Dog
Brother in law: Monkey

Thank you.
 
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jacasser

New Member
Hi David,

My bf and I are finding dates to wed in 2009, Can you advise if 15/05/09 & 20/9/2009 are auspicous dates. He is a pig and I am a goat.

Thank you!
 
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stephanotis

New Member
Hi David,

Pls help to advise if 21/07/09 is a good day for marriage?

Groom's Zodiac sign: Tiger
Bride's Zodiac Sign: Dragon

Thanks a lot.
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cmg_consulting

cmg_consulting

Active Member
Hi Christina,

These 2 days doesn't clash to any of you.

However, they are not general Tong Shu auspicious dates for wedding purpose, esp. 22nd Nov which is not a good day.

Hope this helps Christina.
 
cmg_consulting

cmg_consulting

Active Member
Hi Swing me,

There is no such thing as Tiger year not good to get married in. There are millions of happy couples in the world that gets married in the Tiger year. And there are also many couples who gets married in the Rabbit year (or any other year that is "suppose" to be good for marriage by animal zodiac sign alone), but end up divorcing . There is no logic to this. It is just a 'belief" or "urban legend" as you might want to call it.

Hope this helps
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cmg_consulting

cmg_consulting

Active Member
Hi Jere's Wife,

For 2010 dates, the Tong Shu for 2010 is not out yet and will only be out around July period. As such, the only way to select auspicious dates for 2010 now is to use Bazi (in combination with other date selection techniques), which is a much more accurate and precise technique for date selection.

Hope this helps.
 
cmg_consulting

cmg_consulting

Active Member
Hi Justina Yip,

15/5 is not a general Tong Shu date for wedding purpose.

Although 20/9 is stated in the Tong Shu as general auspicious date for wedding, there are other "factors" in the Tong Shu that render this day not so ideal for wedding. If possible, a better date can be chosen.

Hope this helps
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cmg_consulting

cmg_consulting

Active Member
Hi Stephanotis,

This is not a good date for wedding.

In fact, the whole month is not ideal for wedding purpose as this is the month that "clashes" with the year.

Hope this helps
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cocosweet

New Member
Dear david, can you give comments on OCT 3? does this day clash with anyone of us?
Bride & groom: year of rooster
Bride parents: tiger & OX
Groom 's parents: rat & Dragon.

can you advise any auspicious date for us from period 19 sept to oct 17? Many thanks!
 
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cookiepig

New Member
Hi David

Pls help to advise if 26/09/09 is a good day for marriage?

Groom's Zodiac sign: Monkey
Bride's Zodiac Sign: Rat
 
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cmg_consulting

Active Member
Hi coco lee,

I assume you are referring to 2009. This day doesn't clash to any of you and is a general auspicious date for wedding.

Some other auspicious tong shu dates that you can consider:

- 21/9
- 29/9

However, I cannot tell if these dates are good for both of you without using Bazi.

Hope this helps.
 
cmg_consulting

cmg_consulting

Active Member
Hi Noella,

14th June is a general auspicious Tong Shu day for wedding, but this day clashes to you. Therefore, it is not advisable to use this day.

Hope this helps.
 
cmg_consulting

cmg_consulting

Active Member
Hi Joanne,

20/9 is not a general good day for wedding either.

After 7th lunar mth, the nearest general auspicious weekend date for wedding will be 3rd Oct 09.
 
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noella

New Member
Thanks David,

Now I am having headache for the dates
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How about 25/10/09, 15/11/09 or 21/11/09?
Sorry to trouble you again. :p
 
cmg_consulting

cmg_consulting

Active Member
Hi Noella,

Only 25th Oct is good date that is usable. This is in general only. I don't know if it will be good for both of you or not.

Btw, by now, most of the hotels are already fully booked for 2009 weekend dates. Most of my clients are selecting dates for 2010 now. You might have to consider either lunch or weekdays if you need to carry out your AD in 2009.

Hope this helps.
 
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purinne

New Member
hihi david ... may i check whether 24 oct 09 is a gd day for weddin?

im born in the yr of a rooster while htb in the year of dog.

many thanks
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jacasser

New Member
Hi David,

Thanks for answering my previous queries.

I would like to know if choosing an auspicious is more impt for ROM or the qui xin niang day itself?
 
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jacasser

New Member
Hi David,

Thanks for answering my previous queries.

I would like to know if choosing an auspicious is more impt for ROM or the qui xin niang day itself?
 
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luranius

New Member
Hi David,

Due to the reason that most of the Hotel's banquet have already been fully booked, esp end of the year.
I would appreciate that if you could advise when will be the auspicious date on either Nov 09, Dec 09 or early 2010 for our AD & ROM day?

Groom :28/11/1982
Bride :22/11/1980
Groom's Parent: Dragon & Pig
Bride's Parent: Dragon & Goat

Kindly advise!

Thanks a million~
 
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wendy2806

New Member
Hi David
Can u kindly advise a good date for the Oct, Nov Dec

Groom: 08/01/1975
Bride: 28/06/1981
Groom Parents: Rat and Pig
Bride Parents: Rat and Monkey

Thanks a million
 
cmg_consulting

cmg_consulting

Active Member
Hi Jacasser,

The ROM will be the more important date. That is the day both of you offically and legally become husband and wife. The AD is more of a customary practice, unless both your ROM and AD falls on the same day.

However, in any case, since marriage is such an important event in a person's life, we will choose auspicious dates for both ROM and AD.

Hope this helps.
 
cmg_consulting

cmg_consulting

Active Member
Hi Lexis,

Frankly, the 2009 weekends dates for most of the banquet venues are all fully taken up by now, even for Nov, Dec and Jan 2010.

Some of the dates you might want to consider: 18/11, 30/11, 6/12, 17/12, 29/12, 11/1/10, 20/1/10, 23/1/10, 29/1/10.

These are general Tong Shu auspicious days only. I have no idea if it is good for both of you specifically as the only way to determine that will be using Bazi.

Hope this helps
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dreamer11

New Member
Hi David, I was told by a shifu that 26 sept 09 is lunar 8 aug and it's good date. Please advise as u mentioned it's not good for marriage. Tks.
 


cmg_consulting

cmg_consulting

Active Member
Hi Wendy,

You may want to try these general auspicious dates: 19/11, 1/12, 6/12, 13/12, 25/12, 31/12.

For your case, a lot of the good days in Oct-Dec clashes to either both of you or your parents. Hence there are not many days left.

Hope this helps.
 
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