Master David Tong's Advice Corner (Geomancy and Fengshui)

[cmg_consulting]

Hi lala28

29/9/15 clash Tiger, cannot be used as one of your parents

 

[cmg_consulting]

Hi Littlemuiz

This is not a general tong shu good date but doesn't clash anyone (clash Ox)

 

[cmg_consulting]

Hi tulipkiss

22/3 clash Rooster, cannot use. ROM or Customary also can clash both of you or parents

22/6 doesn't clash anyone, but have to wait for tong shu to be out in Sep to check for general good dates

FYI by right 2016 Monkey yr clash Tiger and 2017 Rooster yr clash Rabbit, so by right both yrs cannot ROM or hold customary

 

[joyun]

Hello Master Tong,
Can you tell us if one of these dates are a good one for a wedding. Thank you!

November 22, 2015
December 20, 2015
December 27, 2015

Groom: September 26, 1982 (Dog)
Bride: August 15, 1976 (Dragon)

Grooms mom: 1952 (Dragon)
Grooms Dad: 1943 (Sheep/Goat)

Brides Mom: 1953 (Snake)
Brides Dad: 1939 (Rabbit)

 

[fannfannhuang]

Hi fannfannhuang

Usually the room will be locked up after AC to prevent anyone touching the bed. If you have to enter, make sure you don't touch the bed

Thank you Master Tong!

 

[joyun]

opps sorry I switched the dates for bride and groom. It should be:


BRIDE: September 26, 1982 (Dog)
GROOM: August 15, 1976 (Dragon)

Grooms mom: 1952 (Dragon)
Grooms Dad: 1943 (Sheep/Goat)

Brides Mom: 1953 (Snake)
Brides Dad: 1939 (Rabbit)

We are looking at November 22, 2015,
December 20, 2015 and
December 27, 2015 as possible wedding dates.

We like the December 20, 2015 date the most though. Would this be a good date for a wedding ?

 

[tulipkiss]

Hi tulipkiss

22/3 clash Rooster, cannot use. ROM or Customary also can clash both of you or parents

22/6 doesn't clash anyone, but have to wait for tong shu to be out in Sep to check for general good dates

FYI by right 2016 Monkey yr clash Tiger and 2017 Rooster yr clash Rabbit, so by right both yrs cannot ROM or hold customary

Thanks for the reply..

So, in 2016 all Tigers cannot get married and 2017 all rabbits cannot get married?
What will happen if they do, and any ways to "counter"?

 

[felcia]

Hi Master Tong,

Since you've replied that 1st July 2016 clash with Tiger hence, it is not a good date for our Morning gate crash, ROM&Wedding Banquet. Appreciate if you could recommend us a few auspicious dates for us, pls? Thank you.

Groom: Year 1984, Rat
Bride: Year 1989, Snake

Groom's father: Year 1950, Tiger
Groom's mother: Year 1957, Monkey

Bride's father: Year 1948, Rat
Bride's mum: Year 1958, Dog

Appreciate your advise soon.. May I check how much is the fee you charge for detailed wedding consultation(e.g. guo da li, auspicious time to pick bride, an-chuang)?
Thanks a lot.

 

[Amy Leong]

Hi Master Tong,

I would like to ask whenever people ask about auspicious date, is meant for the ROM? Or the date of tea ceremony and wedding banquet?

 

[Biu]

Hi Master Tong

If we are planning to have our wedding next year March or April, is the only way to know good dates now through ba zi because tong shu is not out yet? Does ba zi method give us other information besides good dates?

 

[Ms.libra]

Hi! Master Tong,
May I asked if Feb.26 2016 is a good date for wedding?
Guy:01-16-83 Capricorn
Gal:10-06-82 Libra

If not,can you give me an idea which month date year will be good to be married?
Master,did we're meant? Or did the Libra n Capricorn compatible ?

Thanks in advanced and more power..

 

[puppetdollie]

Hi Master Tong,

We are planning to get married in December 2016, but have yet to choose a date. May I know is it better to use Bazi or Tong Shu to calculate?

We are looking at the weekends of dec'16, may I know which dates are more auspicious?
3/ 4/ 10/ 11/ 17/ 18 December 2016

Groom: 24 July 1990, Horse
Bride: 26 April 1991, Goat

Groom's father: 8 Jan 1953, Dragon
Groom's mother: 14 Apr 1956, Monkey

Bride's father: 26 Sep 1959, Pig
Bride's mum: 17 June 1961, Ox

May I know how much is it for detailed consultation?
Pls email me at:
[email protected]

Thanks!!

 

[cmg_consulting]

Hi joyun

None of these dates are general good dates. In fact, they are very bad dates for wedding

 

[cmg_consulting]

Hi tulipkiss,

Yes correct. It represent a bad start to the marriage.

If no choice, the work ard will be to ROM in 2015 first so that your are officially married in 2015. Then the banquet in 2016/17.

 

[cmg_consulting]

Hi felcia

The almanac/tong shu for 2016 will only be out in Sept 2015, hence for general dates i can only advise you after the tong shu is out. Right now the only way is using Bazi to select. If you are keen, you can drop me an email at [email protected] or go to my site www.cmgconsulting.com.sg , go to Contact Us page and send me an email using the online form. I will revert you with more details

 

[cmg_consulting]

Hi Amy Leong

It is for all 3

 

[cmg_consulting]

Hi Biu

Bazi overrides the tong shu. Tong shu dates are generic dates only and only take the animal sign into consideration, which is too generic. Bazi dates factor in entire birth data (birthday and time of birth), hence more precise.

 

[cmg_consulting]

Hi Ms.libra

26th Feb is a Year Breaker day, very bad day

The almanc for 2016 wil only be out in Sept 2015, hence i can only advise general dates after it is out.

 

[cmg_consulting]

Hi puppetdollie

Bazi dates are more accurate and precise. Tong shu uses only animal sign, very generic only. A good date in the tong shu can still be inauspicious if the date and bazi are not compatible.

I dont know which date in Dec 2016 will be auspicious yet as the tong shu will only be out in Sep. Right now the only way is using Bazi to calculate as Bazi dates override the Tong Shu

 

[lala28]

thank master tong

 

[Justine86]

Hello Master Tong,

I would like to know the auspicious wedding dates for 9th lunar month of 2016 and December 2016 (we are having two weddings - one in Perth, one in Melaka), using bazi. We would prefer a Saturday date.

Groom's DOB: 26/6/1984
Bride DOB: 25/01/1986

If you need more info, please email me: [email protected]

Many thanks

 

[Justine86]

**sorry, should be 8th lunar month...
thx

 

[Ara Tan]

Hi Master Tong,

you mention year 2016 Monkey yr clash Tiger and 2017 Rooster yr clash Rabbit.

As we planning to hold our AD on year 2016 does it clash with Rabbit(bride & broom).

which year is better for Rabbit (2015 or 2016)??

 

[thomaskzy]

Hi Master Tong,

I know that year 2016 (Monkey Year) clashes with Tiger.

But we are planning to get married in 2016 March, is there a way to neutralize?

Groom zodiac: Horse
Bride zodiac: Tiger

 

[jjjk]

Hi Master,

You mentioned that the attendee gets all the bad luck if attending another red event within 100 days.

A friend who agreed to be my jiemei told me she decided to ROM less than 100 days after my wedding, and said she is not superstitious. Will I be affected if she still remains as jiemei in this case if I am not attending her ROM after that?

 

[ErroLiCia]

Hi Master Tong,

We planning to hold our AD in year 2016 (monkey year) and we do not know which is a gd date. Can you advise?
Me: born in the year of dog
Hubby: born in the year if rooster.

Thank you.

 

[cmg_consulting]

Hi Justine86

The almanac will only be out in Sept 2015, so I can only advise general good dates ard that time. Now the only way is using bazi to select only

 

[cmg_consulting]

Hi Ara Tan

2015 clash to Ox, 2016 clash Tiger, 2017 clash Rabbit.

Hence for rabbit, only 2017 is bad yr for wedding

2015 will be a better yr for rabbit as goat and rabbit are compatible signs, but booking hotel may be bit last min and not easy to find now.

 

[cmg_consulting]

Hi thomaskzy

Best to avoid that yr

If really no choice, then ROM on a good yr first

 

[cmg_consulting]

Hi jjjk

She cannot be your jie mei at all. She can attend your banquet, but she bad luck, not you

 

[cmg_consulting]

Hi ErroLiCia

The tong shu/alamanc for 2016 will only be out in Sept 2015. U can post here again as I can only advise 2016 general dates after it is out. Right now the only way is using bazi to select

 

[Jacqueline.sst]

Hi Master Tong.. is it really that before and after our wedding 90 days we cannot attend wedding?

 

[jjjk]

Hi jjjk

She cannot be your jie mei at all. She can attend your banquet, but she bad luck, not you

Hi Master,

Thank you for the advice. May I ask the reason/belief behind 'She cannot be your jiemei at all'?

(Recap: She is going to ROM less than 100 days after my wedding.)

 

[ErroLiCia]

Hi Master Tong,

Thanks for the respond.
Isit better to see the dates from tong shu/alamanc or using bazi to select? Cos the only worry for me is to book the hotel which I need a date to do so.

My friend had a Tong shu/alamanc however it was back in yr 2009 when she use it to see the dates for her marriage. Can I use that Tong shu? Is there a difference in terms of the year Tong shu? Thank you.

 

[cottonbugz]

Hi Master Tong,

Groom & Bride: Dragons

Groom's parents: Monkeys
Bride's parents: Goats

Is 2016 or 2017 a good year to get married?

Thank you

 

[swashed]

Hi Master Tong, read that 2016 would be a bad year for Tigers. My fiancé is a Dog while I'm a Tiger, can I check if 2015 or 2017 would be a better year for us to get married, or is there no difference?

 

[leen_10]

Hi.. master tong

If my wedding is 1 week before my Other friend wedding, can she attend mine? Or after my wedding can I attend her wedding? Will it bring bad luck to us.

Thanks

 

[leen_10]

Hi... master tong

I'm planning to get married in Mar 2016 ..
Is it a Good year for us to get married?

Groom: ox
Bride: ox

Grooms mother: goat
Grooms father: ox

Brides mother: ox
Brides father: rabbit

Thanks

 

[cmg_consulting]

Hi Jacqueline.sst

Yes, it is 100 days before and after your wedding.

 

[cmg_consulting]

Hi jjjk

The wedding/ROM is less than 100 days apart. If she be your jiemei, she will bring bad luck to you and herself. Will clash.

 

[cmg_consulting]

Hi ErroLiCia

tong shu changes every yr. u have to wait for 2016 tong shu to be out in ard sept 2015. U cannot use old tong shu!

Else the only way to select date now is using Bazi. Tong shu is NOT accurate . It only factor animal sign , not entire Bazi (birthday and time of birth). Hence bazi dates is more accurate and override tong shu dates. Tong Shu dates is for mass consumption, very general only.

 

[cmg_consulting]

Hi cottonbugz

Based on zodiac, both yrs are fine for wedding

 

[cmg_consulting]

Hi swashed

Both yrs are fine, both dont clash.

 

[cmg_consulting]

Hi leen_10

The person that goes to get all the bad luck. If you go your bad luck, not her. Vice versa. So long as you dont go you are safe. They dont believe want to come, that is their problem.

 

[cmg_consulting]

Hi leen_10

Yes 2016 is fine

 

[Noodlecrush]

Hi Master Tong,

Would like to check if ROM in Nov/Dec 2015 and hold wedding banquet in May/June 2016 is good?

Groom: Oct 1986 (tiger)
Bride: July 1984 (rat)
Groom's dad: Apr 1958 (dog)
Groom's mum: Mar 1963 (rabbit)
Bride's dad: Jan 1957 (monkey)
Bride's mum: Feb 1959 (dog)

Thanks!

 

[pandanz]

Hi Master Tong.. the 100 days before and after wedding, cannot attend another wedding, only applies to the couple or to close family members like parents, siblings too?

 

[princesssoda06]

Hi Master Tong,

Would like to check if Actual Day in 30th April or 1st May are better for us? We ROM last yr, 1st March 2014 already

Groom: 04 July 1985 (Ox)
Bride: 24 Nov 1988 (Dragon)

Thank you!!

 

[Tsyv]

Hi Master Tong

Would like to check if following dates for wedding/rom are good

14 nov 2015, 9 jan 2016, 24 apr 2016, 30 apr 2016


Groom: 15 aug 86 (tiger)
Bride: 26 nov 88 (dragon)
Parents: Ox, rabbit, pig, dog

Tks.

 

[Rachel goh]

Hi Master Tong,

I am wondering if which day will be the most auspicious dat to hold my wedding in December 2015. Is 30 dec a good day? Thank you!

My zodiac (bride): 18 dec 1988 dragon
Groom: 3 March 1986 tiger
Bride mom: dragon
Bride dad: tiger
Groom mum: pig
Groom dad: monkey