Master David Tong's Advice Corner (Geomancy and Fengshui)

hello_leaf

New Member
Hi hello_leaf

20th March by defaut is a bad day, cannot use for ROM or wedding

Hi Master Tong,

Thank you for replying my question.

Not doubting your credibility but can I ask what is the date based on? This is because I checked an almanac from iTunes and other sources for auspicious date 2015, all stating 20 March 2015 is auspicious for wedding. Could it be these sources inaccurate?
We wanted this date because it is also our anniversary..

Thank you again!
 


cmg_consulting

Active Member
Hi Saccharinedoses

Below are the general tong shu good dates:

- 18/10, 05/12, 06/12

** Note that tong shu dates are generic dates only. A good date in the tong shu can still be considered inauspicious if the date is not compatible with the couple's bazi**

David Tong
 

cmg_consulting

Active Member
Hi hello_leaf

Whatever you see online based on tong shu general good dates or even if you see the tong shu itself, there are MANY things that are not mentioned and you must have an in-depth knowledge of Bazi & Date Selection skills to be able to determine that.

Using your case as an eg, 20th March 2015 is i know is listed on online tong shu as good date for wedding, BUT this date is one day before 春分 (21st March) (layman term = changing of the seasonal Qi). And this day is know as the 4 Separating Days, which is regarding in Chinese Metaphysics as a bad date. i know it sounds complicating, but i just want to use this case to show you that whatever you check and see online and tong shu doesnt tell you lots of stuffs that you need to filter yourself based on Chinese Metaphysics knowledge. If you check the hard copy of the tong shu (as online version and itunes ver are the worst in terms of accuracy for tong shu dates), it is stated 四离日。

David Tong
 

sys

New Member
Hi Master Tong,

Thank you for advising us here out of goodwill. Can you kindly advice me if 7 Nov 2014 is a good date? Or any date after 28/10, before end of November based on the following?

Groom: 16 Oct 1985 (Ox)
Bride: 22 July 1990 (Horse)

Groom's Parents:
Father: 12 Jan 1955 (Horse)
Mother: 15 Oct 1958 (Dog)

Bride's Parents
Father: 4 June 1962 (Tiger)
Mother: 4 Dec 1965 (Snake)

Thank you!
 
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tulipkiss

Active Member
Hi Master Tong,

Can you advise if 31 Jan 2016 is a good date? Intend to do solemnisation + tea ceremony + banquet in one day.

Groom: 08 Dec 1986 (Tiger)

Bride: 29 Oct 1987 (Rabbit)


Groom's father: 18 Aug 1948 (Rat)

Groom's mother: 28 Feb 1957 (Rooster)


Bride's father: 28 Apr 1956 (Monkey)

Bride's mother: 22 Oct 1959 (Pig)

Looking forward to your reply!
Thanks.
 

momoshi

Member
Hi Master Tong,

Can you kindly advise any good dates in Q3 and Q4 2015 for tea ceremony+ROM+banquet (in a day)?

Groom: 23 Sep 1983 (Boar)
Bride: 31 Jul 1983 (Boar)

Groom's sister: 2 Dec 1977 (Snake)

Bride's father: 25 Oct 1950 (Tiger)
Bride's mother: 8 May 1953 (Snake)

Thank you!!
 

Karinne

New Member
Hi Master Tong,

Could you kindly advise if December 12th, 2015 is a good date for tea ceremony+ROM+banquet? We have seen some almanac that mention that this is a good date, and some mentioning that this is a not a good one. We hope to seek your professional opinion on this tricky situation.

Groom: 28 Oct 1986 (Tiger)
Bride: 18 Nov 1986 (Tiger)

Groom's brother: 23 April 1998 (Tiger)

Bride's father: 16 Dec 1947 (Boar)
Bride's mother: 30 March 1950 (Tiger)

Groom's father: 14 Feb 1955 (Goat)
Groom's mother: 19 Sep 1960 (Rat)

Thanks in advance!
 

babyy87

New Member
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Hi Master Tong,

Will like to ask if year 2015 is a good year for ROM between:

Groom - 30 June 1985 (ox)
Bride - 15 March 1987 (rabbit)

I understand 2015 is not good for ox...if so ROM before 2015 CNY can?

What about year 2016?

Thank you.
 

Skycreator

New Member

Hi Master Tong,

Please kindly advise on whether these few dates are good for weddings?
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Dates:
05 December 2015
12 December 2015
19 December 2015
26 December 2015

Groom:
1988 (Dragon)
Dad: Rooster
Mum: Tiger

Bride:
1990 (Horse)
Dad: Passed away
Mum: Dragon

Thank you, Master Tong.
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Dear Master Tong,

Could you kindly advise if there are good dates during Oct, Nov or Dec 2015 for ROM+Wedding?
Groom: 02 Oct 1986 (Tiger), born 0015 hours
Bride: 28 Feb 1988 (Dragon), born 2312 hours

Groom's Father: 25 Oct 1947 (Pig)
Groom's Mother: 15 July 1951 (Rabbit)

Bride's Father: 21 Nov 1947 (Pig)
Bride's Mother: 24 Nov 1951 (Rabbit)
Bride's Big Brother: 11 Sep 1974 (Tiger)
Bride's 2nd Brother: 22 May 1981 (Rooster)

Many thanks in advance, Master Tong!
 

iamjas

New Member
Dear Master Tong,

We are intending to get married, judging by our birth dates, which year or dates will you advice us to ROM + Wedding?

Groom: 11 Aug 1989 (snake)
Bride: 3 Nov 1989 (snake)

Groom's mom: Mouse, 1960
Groom's dad: Monkey, 1956

Bride's mom: Dragon, 1952
Bride's dad: Ox , 1949

Thanks
 

wbpauline

New Member
Hi Master Tong,

Groom - 30 June 1985 (ox)
Bride - 15 March 1987 (rabbit)

you mentioned that 2015 will clash with Ox, thus not a good year for wedding.
we are planning to ROM on 27th Dec 2014 and traditional wedding on 19th Sept 2015.
Will that solve the problem?

And i have a friend's wedding to attend on 1 Nov 2014. if my ROM date is confirmed on 27th Dec 2014, can i still attend her wedding?

Please advice.

thanks.
 

tulipkiss

Active Member
Hi Master Tong,

Can you advise if 31 Jan 2016 is a good date? Intend to do solemnisation + tea ceremony + banquet in one day.

Groom: 08 Dec 1986 (Tiger)

Bride: 29 Oct 1987 (Rabbit)


Groom's father: 18 Aug 1948 (Rat)

Groom's mother: 28 Feb 1957 (Rooster)


Bride's father: 28 Apr 1956 (Monkey)

Bride's mother: 22 Oct 1959 (Pig)

Looking forward to your reply!
Thanks.

Also 16/1/16 too! Thanks!
 

jr.ty

New Member
Dear Master Tong

We are planning to get married in late Q4 2015, any good dates to advise us for our ROM + Customary?

Groom: 4 Apr 1984 (Rat)
Bride: 22 Oct 1982 (Dog)

Groom's mom: Pig, 1959
Groom's dad: Dog, 1958

Bride's mom: Horse, 1954
Bride's dad: Rabbit, 1951

Thanks
 

wbpauline

New Member
Hi Master Tong

Groom - 19 Nov 1985 (ox)
Bride - 1 May 1987 (rabbit)

you mentioned that 2015 will clash with Ox, thus not a good year for wedding.
we are planning to ROM on 27th Dec 2014 and traditional wedding on 19th Sept 2015.
Will that solve the problem?

And i have a friend's wedding to attend on 1 Nov 2014. if my ROM date is confirmed on 27th Dec 2014, can i still attend her wedding?

Please advice.

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cmg_consulting

Active Member
HI Karinne

Yes that is a general good day and dont clash anyone (clash Dragon) :)

Different tong shu say different things, which is y tong shu is not accurate , more for mass consumption only. Using Bazi to calculate is the right way and accurate as it factors in both your birth data
 

cmg_consulting

Active Member
Hi wbpauline

This will minimise the problem as at least you are officially married (ROM) in a yr that doesnt clash.

>And i have a friend's wedding to attend on 1 Nov 2014. if my ROM date is confirmed on 27th Dec 2014, can i still attend her wedding?

U cannot attend her wedding at all. 100 days before and after you ROM & Wedding, no red white events
 

tulipkiss

Active Member
Thanks for
Hi tulipkiss

>Also 16/1/16 too! Thanks

6th Jan - 3rd Feb is a bad mth for wedding as that period/month clashes to the year.

Thanks for the reply Master Tong!
How about 22 November 2015 instead?

Recap of the birthdates:
Groom: 08 Dec 1986 (Tiger)
Bride: 29 Oct 1987 (Rabbit)
Groom's father: 18 Aug 1948 (Rat)
Groom's mother: 28 Feb 1957 (Rooster)
Bride's father: 28 Apr 1956 (Monkey)
Bride's mother: 22 Oct 1959 (Pig)
 

wbpauline

New Member
Hi wbpauline

This will minimise the problem as at least you are officially married (ROM) in a yr that doesnt clash.

>And i have a friend's wedding to attend on 1 Nov 2014. if my ROM date is confirmed on 27th Dec 2014, can i still attend her wedding?

U cannot attend her wedding at all. 100 days before and after you ROM & Wedding, no red white events
Thank you Master Tong. So meaning if I were to attend my friend's wedding, it will be bad for me and my htb?
 

babyy87

New Member
Hi Master Tong,

Groom - 30 June 1985 (ox)
Bride - 15 March 1987 (rabbit)

Groom father - 21 Aug 1954 (horse)
Groom mother - 7 January 1961 (rat)

Bride mother - 23 October 1955 (sheep)

As your reply earlier it's ok for year 2016 for ROM and wedding due to year 2015 clash with Ox.
So is it ok between June to August 2016 for us to have both ROM and customary wedding?

Thanks.
 

G&B

New Member
Hi Master Tong,

Would like to enquire if next year 2015 is a good year for us to hold our wedding:
Our birth dates & zodiac and our parents' are as stated below:

Groom - 4 March 1978 (goat)
Bride - 27 October 1988 (dragon)

Groom father - 22 May 1940 (dragon)
Groom mother - 10 April 1952 (dragon)

Bride father - 15 February 1952 (dragon)
Bride mother - 5 May 1954 (horse)

If so, would you recommend a good date/month in the later part of 2015 please?
Thank you.
 

Pril Ci

New Member
Good Day Master Tong,
Please kindly advice me if October 21, 2015 is an auspicious date for wedding .. Thank you so much in advance.. Im really looking forward for this day , i hope there'll be no bad luck for us :( and pls if its not a good day , can u suggest a good day for our wedding that would not clash on any of our family signs.. Thank thank u and more power!

Bride to be : April 27, 1988 (dragon)
Groom : May 1, 1983 (pig)

Brides father : august 19, 1962 ( tiger)
Brides monther : april 16, 1968 ( monkey)

Grooms father : september 23, 1945 (rooster)
Grooms mother : march 6, 1949 (ox)
 
Hi Master.. is 26sep 2016 good date for Chinese marriage with tea ceremony included?
Btw any good dates for ROM in Nov 14 & Dec 14?
DOB for Groom: 5th July 1977 ( snake)

DOB of bride: 13 Aug 1984 ( rat)
 
Hi master tong!

Is 12th June 2015 an auspicious date for our wedding ceremony & ROM?

Bride 30/06/1987 (rabbit)
Groom 31/01/1985 (rat)

Groom mom 27/09/1958
Groom dad 04/11/1957


Bride mom 17/11/1960
Bride dad 19/03/1959

Thanks a lot!
 

susiesck

New Member
Hi Master Tong,

My bf and I plan to get married on 20 Dec 2014.
Can you advise what is the auspicious time bride needs to arrive groom's house
and auspicious dates for Guo Da Li and An Chuan?

Groom : 21-Jan-1977 [dragon]
Bride: 11-Mar-1980 [monkey]

Thanks!
 

karen86

New Member
Hi Master Tong,

Can you advise if there's any good date for ROM before Feb 2015 li chun?

Groom: 18-Nov-1985 (Cow)
Bride: 16-Mar-1986 (Tiger)

Thanks
 

naiyoucreamy

Active Member
Hi Master Tong,

Would you be able to advise of the auspicious dates for doing both ROM as well as customary together for 2015? (Preferably in the 2nd half of the year)

Bride - 31/01/1989
Bride Father - 14/05/1947
Bride Mother - 19/09/1950 (passed away)
Bride Sister - 27/03/1979
Bride Brother - 17/12/1975

Groom - 20/05/1988
Groom Father - 27/08/1956
Groom Mother - 15/05/1957
Groom Brother - 15/06/1993

Thanks in advance!
 
Hi Fabian and Queenie

these r the only general gd weekend for ur ROM

22/11, 29/11, 18/1

You can serve tea on the same day too, if possible.

David Tong

Hi Master Tong,

Thanks for the good dates. We finally decided to rom on 22/11. However we are not serving tea on that day. Will there be any bad luck to us?

We have attended a few weddings before our rom and it is within 100 days before. We thought we are to avoid red and white based on wedding date. What should we do to minimize the bad luck on us? Please advise and help.

Btw we are holding our wedding next year on 26/03. Is this a good date for us?

Groom is 20 July 1985 (Ox)
Bride is 20 June 1983 (Pig)

Thanks in advance.
 

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Luxxs

New Member
Hi Master Tong,

Just to check if 24 Sep 2015 will be a good date for our ROM and wedding dinner.
Groom 9 July 1986 (Tiger)
Bride 19 Feb 1988 (Dragon)

And 24 Sep 2015 falls on Thurs, I'm worried that there are too many 4 in the wedding date.
Do advise me if this is a good date for our marriage

Thank you!
 

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