Master David Tong's Advice Corner (Geomancy and Fengshui)

ws2013

New Member
Hi Master Tong,

May I check is 2013 an advisable year for ROM/marriage? Are there auspicious dates in November 2013 for ROM and what are the dates in that month to avoid? Thanks very much for your advice.
 


kittypony

New Member
Hi David,

Can you please advise suitable date for Guo da Li? My wedding date is 06 sep 13 and below is the details?

thanks,




Hi Master Tong,

I just saw the date from your previous post that 06 sep 2013 (Friday) is a PO RI (super bad day). My BF and I have checked with another fortune teller that it is a good date for us. Can you please advise?

Me: Rooster (1981)
Him: Horse (1978)
My BF's son : Rat (2009)
My BF's Father: Ox (1949)
My BF's Mother: Tiger (1950)
My Dad: Horse (1954)
My dad's remarried wife (Rabbit)

Thank you so much for your help. !
 

cmg_consulting

Active Member
Hi myzticalz

you cant determine from those sites. u need to know a bit about bazi or feng shui to determine.

30/11 is Po Yue (meaning that is a snake day, and clashes to the Pig month Nov), hance bad date for wedding

13/12 is even worse. Coz that is Po Yue + Sui Po (meaning that is a Horse day clashes to Rat month Dec, PLUS month of December is Rat month clashes to Horse Year (not a good month).

Hope this helps :)
 

cmg_consulting

Active Member
Hi melody852001

the tong shu for 2014 will only be out in Aug/Sept this year, hence if you are looking at general tong shu dates, will have to wait till then before i can check for you. Right now, we can only use bazi to select the dates
 

cmg_consulting

Active Member
Hi kittypony

You have to do it before 7th lunar mth as after 7th mth is very near. the latest date before 7th mth will be 4th Aug.

Hope this helps.
 

jtaj

New Member
Hi Master David,
we want to get married on a sunday of Feb or Mar., 2014. We usually consult the tong shu, but it's still not available. Do you have any opinions on which dates would be good?
groom september 30, 1980 (monkey)
mother of groom January 22, 1947 (pig)
father of groom Nov. 4, 1946 (dog)

bride oct 14, 1981 (rooster)
mother of bride nov 8, 1952 (dragon)
father of bride april 5, 1950 (tiger)

we would like to avoid feb 16, as a close friend is already getting married on this date.
we found an online resource that says march 9 is not a good date for rooster (bride), and march 16 not a good date for dragon (mother of bride)
http://voyager8.blogspot.com/2013/01/auspicious-dates-for-weddingmarriage-in.html
Any advice on which of the following dates (feb 9, feb 23, Mar 2, march 23, march 30) would be suitable?
 

GenevieveP

New Member
Dear Master Tong,

Can you advise if 9th December 2013 or 12 or 13th December is a good date for ROM?

HTB - Rabbit (02 June 1987)
Me: - Horse (19 July 1990)

HTB Mom - Rat (1960)
HTB Father - Horse (1954)

My Mother - Rooster (1958)
My Father - Pig (1959)

Thank you so much!
 

sillywawa

New Member
Hi David,

I think you mentioned somewhere that if a new house does not have good Qi, there is nothing much can be done till we moved a new house.

Like to check:

1. does the good Qi depend on the house or our bazi as well? If it's solely depending on the house, if my house has bad "Qi", does all the neighbours above or below me with exact same floor plan etc have the same bad "Qi"?

2. Is 4th floor bad for Feng Shui?

3. Is open concept kitchen generally bad for fengshui or have to depend on bazi? If it is bad, will doing a open concept wet/dry kitchen be better? Where stove and sink are enclosed in the wet kitchen with sliding glass door (this glass door will be closed when cooking, open at all other time, is it still bad for fengshui like open concept kitchen?

4. If I am getting my keys around end of July, just before hungry ghost month. I have to report defects to HDB say in 7days, HDB rectify the defect during hungry ghost month, is it considered renovation since we are not supposed to renovate during hungry ghost month in general. Is it ok that i still collect my keys as at end July and let them fix the defects during hungry ghost month or should I change my key collection till after hungry ghost month?

Thank you very much.
 

chloesion

New Member
Dear Master Tong

We are planning to get married in September or October 2014. Can I ask you which are the good dates during weekend? We are looking at 20 Sep 2014 or 18 October 2014.

Husband: 24 Feb 1985 (Ox)
Myself: 3 Oct 1985 (Ox)

Groom's dad: Rooster
Groom's mom: Dog

Bride's dad: Monkey
Bride's mom: Pig

Thank you master, because we need to sign a wedding package by this sunday but have not deicde the date. Appreciate if you can help. Thank you.
 

hwsfwl

New Member
Dear Master Tong

I would appreciate your help to advise me if 22nd Mar 2014 is a good day for ROM and wedding. Or if you can advise me on any good date for Mar 20174 to hold our ROM and wedding

Groom (Year of horse 05 Apr 1978)
Groom's dad (Year of pig)
Groom's mum (Year of rabbit)

Bride (Year of monkey 23 Apr 1980)
Bride's dad (Year of tiger)
Bride's mum (Year of rooster)

Thanks in advance
 

021188

New Member
Hi Master David,

My Husband to Be and I planning to get married September 2014.
We are actually looking at 6 Sept 2014 & 20 Sept 2014. Are these good dates for wedding ceremony & reception?
Can you advise good dates during the weekend?

Groom : 12 April 1986 (Tiger)
Bride : 2 Nov 1988 (Dragon)

Father of Groom : Year of Horse (1954)
Mother of Groom : Year of Rabbit (1963)

Father of Bride : Year of Monkey (1956)
Mother of Bride : Year of Rabbit (1963)
 

pen_pen

New Member
Dear Master David,
Is yr2014 a good year or us to ROM and have our AD

Groom (Year of Chicken 19 jan 1983)
Groom's dad (Year of Goat)
Groom's mum (Year of Chicken)

Bride (Year of Goat 27 Dec 1979)
Bride's dad (Year of tiger)
Bride's mum (Year of rabbit)
 

cmg_consulting

Active Member
Hi jtaj

Right now the tong shu is not out yet (probably Aug/Sept), hence i can only advise you the general good dates after it is out. right now, the only way is using bazi (birthday and time of birth) to select.
 

cmg_consulting

Active Member
hi kittypony

For GDL? that will be 4th Aug as per previous reply.

p/s: it will be good if you cut and paste our conversation here and/or your details so that i dont have to try and figure out what we are talking abt previosuly. tks :)
 

cmg_consulting

Active Member
Hi sillywawa

See replies below:

1. does the good Qi depend on the house or our bazi as well? If it's solely depending on the house, if my house has bad "Qi", does all the neighbours above or below me with exact same floor plan etc have the same bad "Qi"?

Solely on the house first. If the house is bad, who stay also bad, just how bad. And that depends on bazi and also if the bad qi affects who more. If good, then we can fine how good using bazi. Every house is different. So if your house is bad, we cannot assume neighbour above or next to you is bad. It doesnt work that way. Your neighbour house above you haunted doesnt mean yours is haunted right?

2. Is 4th floor bad for Feng Shui?

No. that is crap. 8th floor can be bad feng shui too if the direction and floor plan etc all wrong
and vice versa. There is nothing wrong with 4 or 13. So long as direction , floor plan etc is correct, the qi can still be good

3. Is open concept kitchen generally bad for fengshui or have to depend on bazi? If it is bad, will doing a open concept wet/dry kitchen be better? Where stove and sink are enclosed in the wet kitchen with sliding glass door (this glass door will be closed when cooking, open at all other time, is it still bad for fengshui like open concept kitchen?

it really depends on the house layout/kitchen floor plan. ideally we want an enclosed kitchen area so that we can place the stove in the correct sector. So will have to see your house to decide.

4. If I am getting my keys around end of July, just before hungry ghost month. I have to report defects to HDB say in 7days, HDB rectify the defect during hungry ghost month, is it considered renovation since we are not supposed to renovate during hungry ghost month in general. Is it ok that i still collect my keys as at end July and let them fix the defects during hungry ghost month or should I change my key collection till after hungry ghost month?

you have no choice. HDB doesnt care abt 7th mth! so long as your own reno by contractor start after 7th mth will do.

Hope this helps :)
 

cmg_consulting

Active Member
Hi chloesion

the tong shu will only be out in Aug/Sept this year, hence i can only advise general dates then. Right now, we can only use bazi to calculate, and that is the correct way as tong shu are purely generic dates only for mass consumption
 

cmg_consulting

Active Member
Hi hwsfwl

that day doesnt clash to anyone. But will have to wait tong shu is out to check if it is a general good date, if you are looking at tong shu general dates only.
 

cmg_consulting

Active Member
Hi 021188

Both dates doesnt clash to anyone. But will have to wait tong shu is out (aug/sept) to check if it is a general good date, if you are looking at tong shu general dates only. Right now the only way to select is using bazi only.
 

hwsfwl

New Member
Dear Master Tong

I would appreciate your help to advise me if 22nd Mar 2014 is a good day for ROM and wedding. Or if you can advise me on any good date for Mar 20174 to hold our ROM and wedding

Groom (Year of horse 05 Apr 1978)
Groom's dad (Year of pig)
Groom's mum (Year of rabbit)

Bride (Year of monkey 23 Apr 1980)
Bride's dad (Year of tiger)
Bride's mum (Year of rooster)

Thanks in advance

Hi hwsfwl

that day doesnt clash to anyone. But will have to wait tong shu is out to check if it is a general good date, if you are looking at tong shu general dates only.[/quote]

Dear Master Tong

Thanks for the advise. :)
 

Joanntsc

New Member
Dear Master Tong,

We are planning on a wedding next year between Sep 14 to Oct 14. Would appreciate your kind advise on a auspicious date for us to tie the knot preferably on a weekend. Details as follows:

Groom : 24 Aug 84 (rat)
Bride : 18 Mar 83 (pig)

Groom's dad : 1951 (rabbit)
Groom's mum : 1957 (rooster)

Bride's Dad : 1963 (rabbit)
Bride's Mum : 1964 (dragon)

Thanks in advance, Master Tong.

Regards,
Joann
 

lindylim

New Member
Hi,

Checking on behalf of my frd n wonder if 26/10/13 a bad day for them.

Groom: dec 1988 (dragon)
Father: 1962 (tiger)
Mum: 1964 (dragon)

Bride: oct 1981 (rooster)
Father: 1951 (rabbit)
Mum: 1952 (dragon)

Thanks in advance.
 

ma2fan2

New Member
Hi Master Tong,

Would like to consult you on whether is it true that when pregnant, it is not advisable to move house and to participate in any hse reno or moving activities. Are there anythings that can be done to allow for moving of house during pregnancy?

For your advise pls.

Thanks!
 

cmg_consulting

Active Member
Hi ma2fan2

Yes this is true not pantang. You cannot move house or Reno the house during pregnancy as the Qi will change when u move hse or Reno and this is dangerous if you are pregnant (u know what I mean). Of course not everyone will get it, but better be safe than sorry. So the best is till wait till after delivery then move in as no matter what measures you take, the risk is still there.
 

yellowmeadow

New Member
Hi Master Tong

We are planning a wedding and would like to seek your kind advice on our wedding date.

Groom : 06 Dec 84 (rat)
Bride : 25 Dec 84 (rat)

Groom's dad : 1957 (rooster)
Groom's mum : 1958 (dog)

Bride's Dad : 1956 (monkey)
Bride's Mum : 1957 (monkey)


1) Since we are both rats, do you think our Chinese wedding should be in 2015 rather than 2014?
2) For our ROM date, do we need to avoid 2014 as well? Comparing 2013 and 2014, which is a better year for ROM for the two of us?
 

xiuting_13

New Member
Dear Master Tong,

I would like to seek for your advise as the date we choose from Chinese calendar (20 September 2014) was taken up by other, please advise if wedding date on 27 September 2014 is okay? As the banquet we are looking at are booking fast, hence we need to confirm as soon as possible.

Groom : 13 Sept 1977 (snake)
Bride : 17 Apr 1989 (snake)

Groom's Dad : 1958 (dog)
Groom's Mum : 1958 (dog)

Bride's Dad : 1963 (rabbit)
Bride's Mum : 1964 (dragon)


Hope to hear from you soon!
Thanks in advance. :)
 

Sha16

New Member
Hi Master Tong,

My sis and I happend to plan to hold our wedding on 8th Dec 13 and 1 Dec 13 respectively. Based on some chinese beliefs, we cannot attend each other weddings. Some say must at least a month, some say 40 days apart and even 3 months! Can you please advise which is true? B'coz of these sayings, I will be holding my chinese customary on 19 Oct 13 instead and my banquet on 1 Dec 13. Is it ok? Can we still attend each other's? Also, can I hold my ROM on 1 Dec 13??? Pls..pls advise!
 

cmg_consulting

Active Member
Hi yellow meadow

Yes ideally both rom and customary in 2015 will be ideal as 2014 horse yr clashes to both of you, so not so ideal for wedding and rom :)
 

cmg_consulting

Active Member
Hi Sha16,

Yes siblings by right cannot get married same year. If no choice, at least must be 100days apart (3 mths). Else you cannot attend each other's wedding/rom and will clash each other too.
 

bebeearring

New Member
Hi Master Tong,

My partner and I are planning for ROM and wedding date on 2nd half of next year as the house construction will be done next year June. Could you advise some good dates for 2nd half of year 2014, preferably Aug to Nov 2014. Would want to do it on weekend.

Groom : 13 Oct 1982 (dog)
Bride : 22 Apr 1985 (ox)

Groom's Dad : 1947 (pig)
Groom's Mum : 1949 (ox)

Groom's Sis : 1979 (goat)

Bride's Dad : 13 Mar 1951 (rabbit)
Bride's Mum : 02 Aug 1958 (dog)

Bride's Sis : 15 Sep 1983 (pig)
Bride's Bro : 15 Mar 1988 (dragon)

Hear from you soon!

Kam siah!!
Bebe
 

Jinda

New Member
Hi Master Tong,

My partner and I are planning for wedding (ROM on the same date) in Q4 2014 (between Sep 14 and Dec 14). According to tong shu, can you advise me on the good dates for us? We prefer to have our wedding on weekend.

Groom : 28 Jul 1978 (horse)
Bride : 01 Nov 1984 (rat)
Hope to hear from you soon. :)
 

Adrian Chew

New Member
Hi Master Tong, my fiancee and I decided to get married next year during the period of Sept and October 2014. I would like to ask for your advice on the auspicious weekends (preferably on sun) within the two months mentioned for us to conduct our wedding lunch, please.

Groom: 09 Janauary 1987 (Tiger)
Bride: 23 April 1987 (Rabbit)

Groom's Dad: 1954 (Horse)
Groom's Mom: 1952 (Rabbit)

Bride's Dad: 1957 (Monkey)
Bride's Mom: 1954 (Horse)

Hope to hear from you soon. Thanks!

Adrian
 

mantouz

New Member
Hi Master Tong,
I would like to seek your advise if 2014 is a good year to hold my wedding. I am looking to hold my ROM and wedding in Dec 2014.

Groom : 25 Dec 1983 (pig)
Bride : 12 Jun 1984 (rat)

Groom's Dad : 1950 (Tiger)
Groom's Mum : 1953 (dragon)

Groom's Bro : 1981 (rooster)

Bride's Dad : 1944 (monkey)
Bride's Mum : 1952 (dragon)

Bride's Sis : 1982 (dog)

Appreciate you help!! Hope to hear from you soon J

Thank you
mantouz
 

yan12

New Member
Hi Master Tong,

My boyfriend and I were given a solemnization timing of 1 to 3pm on 5th June 14.
However it would be a mad rush for us as the gate-crash would only start at 9.30am.
We would like to seek for your valued advice if 5th June evening would be a good timing for our solemnization as well?

Groom : 08 Apr 1988 (Dragon)
Bride : 12 Mar 1989 (Snake)


Appreciate your advice. Many thanks!
 

cmg_consulting

Active Member
Hi bebeearring and Adrian chew,

The tong Shu for 2014 will only be out in ard sept this yr. so I can only check then after it is out. Right now only way Is using bazi to select.
 

cmg_consulting

Active Member
Hi yan12

Is this calculated by a feng Shu master using both your bazi? If yes, you have to go back to him to check with him for later rom timing. As those timings are calculated based on both your bazi
 

MrsJT

New Member
Hi Master Tong,

My HTB and I are planning to get married on the 9 March 2014. I have heard that we are not allow to participate in any weddings/ funerals 3 mths before our wedding. May I ask if this date is calculated based on the English calendar or Chinese calendar?

My god brother's wedding is on 14 Dec 2013. I would very much like to attend his wedding without jeopardizing mine.

Can you advise?

Thanks alot!
 

Adrian Chew

New Member
Hi bebeearring and Adrian chew,

The tong Shu for 2014 will only be out in ard sept this yr. so I can only check then after it is out. Right now only way Is using bazi to select.

Hi Master Tong,

I understand that the tong shu is not out yet. Would you be able to advise if 28 September 2014 or 5 October 2014 is a good date and if it clashes with any of us?

Thank you.

Adrian Chew

Groom: 9 January 1987 (Tiger)
Bride: 23 April 1987 (Rabbit)

Groom's Dad: 1954 (Horse)
Groom's Mom: 1952 (Rabbit)

Bride's Dad: 1957 (Monkey)
Bride's Mom: 1954 (Horse)
 

Lynn88

New Member
Hi Master Tong,

I am planning to hold my wedding Chinese ceremony on 13 Dec 2014 and banquet on 14 Dec 2014.

May I know are the dates suitable?

Groom: 1986 (tiger)
Groom dad: 1957 (rooster)
Groom mum: 1958 (dog)

Bride: 1988(dragon)
Bride dad: 1956(monkey)
Bride mum: 1959 (pig)

Thank you so much.
 


kelly11

New Member
Hi,
Pls advise if 28/12/13 or 11/1/2014 or any dates from Jan-Feb 2014 is good for ROM and wedding day?

Groom: 1980 Monkey
Groom Dad: 1939 Tiger
Groom Mum: 1938 Rabbit

Bride 1980 Monkey
Bride Dad: 1952 Dragon
Bride Mum: 1957 Rooster

Thank you so much!
 

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