Master David Tong's Advice Corner (Geomancy and Fengshui)

[cmg_consulting]

Hi vjrequinton

Need your parents zodiac as well

 

[mingyi]

Hi Master Tong,

Thank you for your advice.
Sorry to trouble you but I have another question.

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U can choose a good date to move in before your wedding and stay there one night first. That will be consider move in already. After your wedding, you can just go back anytime. This is the usual way of doing
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Does it matter if we do not sleep on a new double bed (i.e. exisiting single beds) on the day we move in? Reason being the new bed will only be delivered nearer to the An Chuang date. Kindly advice.

Thank you in advance n wishing u a Happy Lunar New Year!

 

[pinkk11]

Re-post..

   
Dear Master Tong

We would like to seek your advice on a good date in Sep 2012 for for wedding ROM and AD (same day).

Preferably on weekday like Wed or Thurs?
FYI, my brother 1984 Rat is getting married this year in May.

Bride DOB – 28 Sep 1983 (Pig)
Groom DOB – 04 Jul 1979 (Goat)

Bride Dad DOB – 04 Jul 1958 (Dog)
Bride Mum DOB – 21 Oct 1964 (Dragon)

Groom Dad – Deceased(Pig)
Groom Mom DOB – 25 Jan 1947 (Pig)

Appreciate your help. Thank you very much! =)

 

[stardust31]

Hi Master Tong, thank you so much for your valuable advise. Happy lunar new year!

 

[cookietigger]

Hi Master Tong,
We would like to seek your professional advice on a good date in the later half of year 2013? We are looking at dates from sep 2013 to dec 2013. Is 19 oct 2013 a good date? Coz we read somewhere that it's better to avoid lunar month 3,7 and 9.

Bride : 18 June 1985 Ox
Groom: 12 January 1983 Dog

Bride mum: Dog 27 oct 1958
Bride dad: rooster 11 July 1957

Groom mum: Monkey 25 mar 1956
Groom dad: Ox 15 Jan 1950

 

[kiwiloh]

Hi Master Tong,

Thank you for your advise. We are interested to have our wedding cum ROM in Mar 2013(Yr of Snake), fri or sat:

01/03, 02/03, 08/03, 09/03, 15/03, 16/03, 22/03, 23/03, 29/03, 30/03

Groom's dob: 22 October 1985, Ox
Groom's dad : Passed away, Rooster
Groom's mom zodiac sign: Rooster

Bride's dob: 30 August 1985,ox
Bride's dad zodiac sign: Rooster
Bride's mom zodiac sign: Pig

Which are the good dates for marriage in Mar 2013? If it is generally a good date, still need to refer to tong shu or bazhi? How do I go about to use bazhi to analyse?

Thank you.

 

[kiwiloh]

Hi Master Tong,

Thank you for your advise. We are interested to have our wedding cum ROM in Mar 2013(Yr of Snake), fri or sat:

01/03, 02/03, 08/03, 09/03, 15/03, 16/03, 22/03, 23/03, 29/03, 30/03

Groom's dob: 22 October 1985, Ox
Groom's dad : Passed away, Rooster
Groom's mom zodiac sign: Rooster

Bride's dob: 30 August 1985,ox
Bride's dad zodiac sign: Rooster
Bride's mom zodiac sign: Pig

Which are the good dates for marriage in Mar 2013? If it is generally a good date, still need to refer to tong shu or bazhi? How do I go about to use bazhi to analyse?

Thank you.

 

[sealion17]

Hi Master Tong,

What about March 2012 (for ROM date)?

Bride: Ox
Groom: Rat

Bride Mom: Goat
Groom Mom: Pig
Groom Dad: Monkey

Thanks!

 

[hj718]

Hi Master Tong

Would like to enquire if 2/3/2013 and 9/3/2013 would be a good date for our customary.

Bride: Rat
Bride's Dad: Tiger
Bride's Mum: Ox

Groom: Rat
Groom's Dad: Horse
Groom's Mum: Tiger

I heard that on the lunar 1st month of the snake year is bad for marriages. any of such known and does it affect our ideal dates?

Thanks and Happy Lunar New Year!

 

[neelie82]

Hi Master Tong,

I would like to know how effective this is as honestly, i know lots of couples who went to have their wedding dates checked but also ended up in divorces etc... I also don't think they went back for a refund... lol...

What exactly is "auspicious" and "not auspicious" in terms of choosing dates for getting married?

Maybe you can explain how this works and what this is for? I'm just curious that's all.
Thanks!

 

[happywoman]

Hi master Tong,

Happy chinese new year .

Here is my full info.
Bride :dragon
Groom : pig


Groom Parent : both pig .
Bride parent : past away

Witness we will get friends born in the year of ox n pig

Hope to get a the best date in may or june weekday

. Thks .

 

[vitamincc18]

Hi Master Tong,

Can i check with you if expecting mothers can give "白金"?

 

[luisa]

Hi Master Tong,

I am planning to hold my wedding in December 2012 &amp; would like to check with you if any of the following dates are not auspicious for us to get married.

8Dec, 9Dec, 15Dec, 16Dec, 22Dec, 23Dec, 29Dec

Bride DOB – 18 Dec 1977 (Snake)
Groom DOB – 14 Jan 1980 (Goat)

Bride Dad Zodiac – Dog
Bride Mum Zodiac – Rat

Groom Dad Zodiac – Monkey
Groom Mom Zodiac – Dog

Also, would like to check with you if I have relatives or friends who are holding their weddings in the same month, is it best not to attend? If so, how about in the month immediately before?

Thanks &amp; Happy Lunar New Year!

 

[hj718]

Hi Master Tong 

i got another question. i Would like to enquire for some good dates for our customary with the following info

Bride: Rat 
Bride's Dad: Tiger 
Bride's Mum: Ox 

Groom: Rat 
Groom's Dad: Horse
Groom's Mum: Tiger

Preferbly of weekends within 1st half of 2013, avoiding lunar mth of ching ming, 6th and 7th.

Thanks and Happy Lunar New Year!

 

[hj718]

Hi

i just read tt u charge to read couples' bazi for wedding dates in 2013. may i know what is your charges like for this service?

Thanks again!

 

[cmg_consulting]

Hi Mandy

Yes you are not suppose to sleep on the new bed anyway. U can sleep in other bedrooms or on a mattress etc in your MBR

 

[cmg_consulting]

Hi pinkk11

These r all the good dates in Sept 2012

- 19/09, 26/9, 30/9

Hope this helps

** Note that there are general tong shu good dates only and both your bazi are not taken into consideration yet. If the date does not match both your Bazi, the date is still considered inauspicious, even if the tong shu says good as tong shu is for generic mass consumption only

 

[cmg_consulting]

Hi Jaymee

you are welcome and Happy New Year to you too

 

[cmg_consulting]

Hi Serene

12/12 is not a very good date for wedding. And if your parents are very pantang type, then it is a chinese belief that wedding and Bd should not on the same day due to clash of luck. But this is more of a pantang thingy, not feng shui

 

[cmg_consulting]

Hi Linda

19th Oct 2013 clashes to none of you. However will have to wait till tong shu is out in July/Aug period to check if it is a general good date or not.

Hope this helps

 

[cmg_consulting]

Hi elene

The tong shu for 2013 will only be out in Jul/Aug , hence i cant check for you if they are general tong shu good dates or not, only if the dates clashes to anyone or not. The only way now is using bazi to select and bazi is more accurate as it is specific to the couple. Tong shu dates are way too generic, for mass public consumption type only.

For selection of wedding dates using bazi, i do charge for it as it is part of my consultation service. U can drop me an email if you are keen and i will revert via email more info

 

[cmg_consulting]

Hi Sealion

these r the good dates in March

- 07/03(only 1 date..rest all clashes to you or parents)

 

[cmg_consulting]

Hi hj718

Both dates dont clash to anyone but will have to wait till tong shu is out to check if it is a general good date or not

 

[cmg_consulting]

Hi Eileen

A good wedding date is to ensure that things flow smoothly on the wedding day itself. And also if a couple's bazi marriage aspect is not good (eg lots of arguments or divorce), a bad date will aggravate this further. If the date is good, it will help pacify it. BUT it is never meant to resolve a bazi that will sure divorce type. For this, you will have to identify the problem (thru destiny analysis) and fix it from there.

And of course is a couple's bazi is originally good in terms of marriage, but if they get married on a bad date, then this may bring problems to their marriage (eg more arguments etc etc. depending on the bazi).

Hope this helps

 

[cmg_consulting]

Hi happywoman

The good dates in may/June are

- 16/05, 18/05, 22/06

Hope this helps

** Note that there are general tong shu good dates only and both your bazi are not taken into consideration yet. If the date does not match both your Bazi, the date is still considered inauspicious, even if the tong shu says good as tong shu is for generic mass consumption only

 

[cmg_consulting]

Hi vitamincc18

Yes they can give (thru others), but cannot go to the funeral

 

[cmg_consulting]

Hi Luisa

Only 9th dec is a general tong shu gd date for wedding but clash to Dog that day, hence cannot be used. the rest are not general good date for wedding

And 3 mths before and after your wedding, you cannot attend other's wedding, ROM wakes and childbirth

 

[cmg_consulting]

Hi hj718

The tong shu for 2013 will only be out in July/Aug period

For the selection of dates using bazi, do drop me an email at [email protected] and i will provide more info via email. Tks

 

[tna]

Hi Master Tong,

What are general good dates for Sep to Dec 2012?

Tna

 

[g_racee]

Happy New Year Master Tong,

May i know what are the good dates to ROM during Dec'2012 to early 2013?

Bride - 27 August 1991 (Goat)
Groom - 27 July 1985 (Ox)

Thank you!

 

[march0311]

hi Master Tong,

can i know if its ok for bridesmaid who is getting rom in april to be my bridesmaid and attend my wedding in may 12?

 

[melina_me]

Hi Master Tong,

My bf's room currently only have single bed. He lives in a 3-room flat and there would be no space for him to put a queen size bed. Is it a must to buy a new queen size bed to AN Chuang? Or can we buy a single bed to An Chuang?

 

[jim_kum]

Hello Master Tong,

My gf and I plan to have my wedding end of 2012 to early 2013 (Dec 2012 to Feb 2013) with preference still in the year of Dragon. With Preference Jan 2013


Bride DOB – 10 Sept 1975 (Rabbit)
Groom DOB – 11 July 1985 (Ox)

Bride Dad DOB – 23 Feb 1959 (Pig)
Bride Mum DOB – 03 Aug 1959 (Pig)

Groom Dad DOB – 17 Nov 1945 (Rooster)
Groom Mom DOB – 12 Jan 1951 (Rabbit)

 

[jim_kum]

Hello Master Tong,

Could we have our ROM together with the actual wedding date?

 

[mysterious]

Hi Master Tong,

Happy Lunar New Year!

My partner &amp; I are planning for a small wedding togther with ROM between end Sep to Dec 2012. Would appreciate your advice for a good date (preferably weekends):

Groom: Pig (17 Jun 1971)
Bride: Rabbit (27 mar 1975)

Groom's Dad: Dragon
Groom's mum: Snake

Bride's Dad: Monkey
Bride's Mum: Dog

Do we have to take our siblings/elders's horoscope into consideration during tea ceremony?

 

[cmg_consulting]

Hi tna

I need both your zodiac and parents zodiac animal signs

 

[cmg_consulting]

Hi Grace

I need your parents zodiac signs too. Pls repost all info again

 

[cmg_consulting]

Hi march0311

No. 3 months before and after a person's wedding, he/she cannot attend other's wedding. ROM is inclusive as it is a red (auspicious)event

 

[cmg_consulting]

Hi Melina

Yes by right must be a double bed. An Chuang on a single bed doesnt make sense

 

[cmg_consulting]

Hi Jimmy

Believed you've emailed me

 

[cmg_consulting]

Hi mysterious

Here are the general tong shu gd dates:

- 30/09, 18/11

These are the only 2 general good weekend dates avail, rest clashes to someone in your family.

** Note that there are general tong shu good dates only and both your bazi are not taken into consideration yet. If the date does not match both your Bazi, the date is still considered inauspicious, even if the tong shu says good as tong shu is for generic mass consumption only

 

[mysterious]

Thanks Master Tong,

Do we also need to look at those elders' horoscope (like siblings) whom we are serving tea to.

 

[g_racee]

Hi Master Tong, I've re-posted me and my bf's information along with our parents'.

Groom - 27/07/1985 (Ox)
Bride - 27/08/1991 (Goat)

Groom's Dad - Snake
Groom's Mum - Snake/Dragon (born in 1953 Jan)

Bride's Dad - Monkey
Bride's Mum - Pig

Many thanks!

 

[cmg_consulting]

Hi Mysterious

U dont need that, else you will never find a good date!

 

[cmg_consulting]

Hi Grace

These are the general good dates:

- 09/12, 13/12, 21/12, 02/01, 07/01, 13/1, 19/1

Hope this helps

 

[mysterious]

Thanks Master Tong.

 

[jocelynkoh]

Hi Master Tong,

My cousin (Tang Jie) is having her wedding on 26 Sep 2012. I will be having my wedding on 11 Nov 2012. Pls advise if my family including myself can attend hers and can she attend mine as well?

My fiance's brother will be expecting his child around Aug 2012. Pls advise if we can attend his childbirth celebration.

 

[bearycloud]

Hi Master Tong,

We haven't officially move in our house yet, can we slowly move our personal belongings (clothes etc) in first?

 

[mavis78]

   
Hi Master Tong,

My fiance &amp; I are planning a small wedding togther with ROM in Dec 2012. Would appreciate your advice for a good date.

Groom: Dragon (18 Jan 1977)
Bride: Snake (31 Jan 1978)

Groom's Dad: passed away
Groom's mum: Dog

Bride's Dad: Ox
Bride's Mum: Tiger

Pls advise us on what dates are good for us to get married in Dec 2012.

Many thanks

 

[joysl82]

Hi Master Tong,

Can I ask if there is a way to calculate wedding date for Sep 2013 based on ba zi only? I heard its not safe to do so based on ba zi only as Tong shu for 2013 is not out yet. Pls advice. Thanks!