Master David Tong's Advice Corner (Geomancy and Fengshui)

[princesscyn1983]

Hi master tong ,
Just a question . Whether the pregnant people who go to the wedding is all superstitious right. So is nothing to do with feng shui etc ? N if she go , the bad luck is on her or the couple side?

 

[melody12]

Hi Master Tong,

Yes, we would want to proceed for 2012 wedding...
Groom is born Pig (Mar 1983) and Bride is born Dog (Jan 1983)...

Any way to minimise the "clash' in Dragon Yr?
thks!

 

[shirley84]

Hi Master Tong,

how about the auspicious time 進門 and 回門?

Thanks!

 

[defi]

Dear Master Tong,

Please help me to check these date, whether these date are good for guo da li (11 December 2011, 24 December 2011, 21 January 2012, 17 February 2012
) ?
How long guo da li must be held before wedding day ? whether it can be held around 2 months before wedding day ?

And for an chuang whether 17 February 2012 or 16 February are auspicious date ?
Whether groom must be come during guo da li ?
How many person from groom side whose will deliver things to the bride ?
How many tray that groom must give to the bride ?

About bride’s veil, when and where the groom must open bride’s veil ?
When groom give brides bouquet for bride ?
And when bride give tux corsages for groom ?

Note : bride = monkey and groom = rooster

Thank you Master Tong.
Regards

 

[defi]

Dear Master Tong,

Whether my little brother (which is already married on October 2011) can help me to deliver things for bride during my guo da li (around dec 2011, jan 2012 or feb 2012) ?
My little brother become our parents representatives to come and delivers things to bride during guo da li. Whether it is ok or not Master Tong ?
But my parents won’t come. What about me, whether I must come during guo da li ?
Thank you very much.
Regards

 

[dolphin78]

Hi Master Tong,

We are keen on getting married in Q3 or Q4 of 2012 and would greatly appreciate if you could kindly advise us on some auspicious dates.

Groom : Apr 1976 - Dragon
Bride : Dec 1978 - Horse

Groom Dad : Jun 1950 - Tiger
Groom Mom : Jan 1949 - Rat

Bride Dad : Jan 1954 - Snake
Bride Mom : Mar 1956 - Monkey

Thanks in advance Master Tong.

 

[v3rtigo]

Hi Master Tong,

We are keen on getting married in either May or June of 2012 and would greatly appreciate if you could kindly advise us on some auspicious weekend (Saturday or Sunday) dates.

Also, are the following dates auspicious for marriage?
19 May, 27May, 02Jun and 24Jun.

Groom : Oct 1981 - Rooster
Bride : Dec 1985 - Ox

Groom Dad (Deceased) : Jul 1950 - Tiger
Groom Mom : Feb 1957 - Rooster

Bride Dad : Jul 1952 - Dragon
Bride Mom : May 1961 - Ox

Thank you very much Master Tong

 

[luv2buy]

Hi Master Tong,
Heard people saying that if there's someone in the family or my birthday on a certain month, should not get married on the same month?
Appreciate if u can advise on this.

 

[kssk]

Hi Master Tong,

I need your help and pls advice me.

I'm a BTB, my mother 2nd brother who is a single just pass away 1 week back. I intend to have my chinese customary somewhere in Dec 2011 or Jan 2012. Can I proceed with the wedding and invite my mother others brother and sister?

Thank you very much for your help in advance.

 

[winsonang]

Dear Master Tong,

I read from the previous posting that 2012 is not a good year for Dog to get married.

Say if I push back to 2013 is it suitable?

Groom: Aug 1982 Dog
Bride: May 1986 Tiger

Groom Dad: 1955
Groom Mum: 1955

Bride Dad: 1955
Bride Mum: 1958

 

[janellechua]

Hi David,

I would like to know if these dates is suitable to hold customary wedding?

19 Jan 2013

Groom: 16 Feb 1981 Chicken
Bride: 03 June 1987 Rabbit

Groom Dad: 1953
Groom Mum: 1953

Bride Dad: 1956
Bride Mum: 1958

Please advise

 

[cmg_consulting]

Hi Cynthia Tan

yes it is our chinese superstition. The pregnant lady get the bad luck, not the wedding couple

 

[cmg_consulting]

Hi MelMel

I need your parent's zodiac signs as well. And let me know which months in 2012 you looking at and weekends or weekdays.

p/s: Pls repost all your info again in one thread, else when the no of posts increases, it takes me a long time to find back your thread. Tks.

 

[cmg_consulting]

Hi Shirley

the fetch the bride timng means the groom have to reach bride's home about 0830hrs, play games and gatecrashing session, and step into bride's home at 0900hrs (or after). Groom will fetch the bride to his home and complete tea ceremony with his parents by 1059hrs. After which, going back to your new home or to bride's parents home for tea ceremony is NOT within the auspicious timing. No timing is required for this

 

[cmg_consulting]

Hi Nguik2

I need your parents zodiacs signs to check the guo da li dates.

How long guo da li must be held before wedding day ? whether it can be held around 2 months before wedding day ?

>>2 wks to 1 month before wedding

And for an chuang whether 17 February 2012 or 16 February are auspicious date ?

>> need your parents zodiac signs

Whether groom must be come during guo da li ?

>> Yes of course

How many person from groom side whose will deliver things to the bride ?

>> up to you.

How many tray that groom must give to the bride ?

>> up to you.

About bride’s veil, when and where the groom must open bride’s veil ?
When groom give brides bouquet for bride ?
And when bride give tux corsages for groom ?

>> These are not feng shui or chinese customs. your wedding planner or bridal studio will advise you on these.

 

[cmg_consulting]

Hi Nguik2

Whether my little brother (which is already married on October 2011) can help me to deliver things for bride during my guo da li (around dec 2011, jan 2012 or feb 2012) ?

>> yes he can help you, so long as that day don't clash to him

My little brother become our parents representatives to come and delivers things to bride during guo da li. Whether it is ok or not Master Tong ?
But my parents won’t come. What about me, whether I must come during guo da li ?

Yes your brother can help you. BUT usually a matchmaker will help you (elderly). And yes,you must go along.

 

[cmg_consulting]

Hi Wan Ting

here are some general tong shu dates:

- 06/07, 09/07, 11/07, 29/07, 12/08, 19/09, 25/09, 29/09, 01/10, 15/11, 18/11, 26/11, 09/12, 21/12


** note that this is general tong shu good date only. A good date in the tong shu can still turn out to be inauspicious if the date and both your Bazi are not compatible.

 

[cmg_consulting]

Hi Tom

Here are the general good dates for May/June 2012 Weekends

- 05/05, 12/05, 20/05, 24/06

Hope this helps

** note that this is general tong shu good date only. A good date in the tong shu can still turn out to be inauspicious if the date and both your Bazi are not compatible

 

[cmg_consulting]

Hi luv2buy

This is just a superstition that i don't buy. What if you have 4 siblings from both sides each plus your parents' and all birthdays fall on different month? Isn't it no need to get married already since all 12 mths also got someone's birthday?

Normally just avoid the parent's actual birthday itself will do if parents are pantang about it

 

[cmg_consulting]

Hi KS

yes you can hold your wedding as he is not considered your immediate family. BUT it will be tricky coz your mum's other sisters and brother by right cannot go to your wedding (coz to them he is their immediate family)

 

[cmg_consulting]

Hi Ang Winson

Yes 2013 will be great

And which hotels you like you will be able to get if you book before Christmas this year. After CNY next year, most hotel weekends (esp popular ones) will be pretty packed, esp 1st half 2013. By time tong shu for 2013 is out, most vacancies for hotel weekend banquet dates will be long gone

 

[cmg_consulting]

Hi Xing Yi

that day clash to Rabbit, hence cannot be used

 

[defi]

Dear Master Tong,

Please help me to check these date, whether these date are good for guo da li (11 December 2011, 24 December 2011, 21 January 2012, 15 February 2012, 17 February 2012
) ?

And for an chuang whether 17 February 2012, 16 February, 15 February 2012 are auspicious date ?

Groom = rooster
Bride = monkey
Groom's father = horse
Groom's mother = pig
Bride's father = horse
Bride's mother = sheep/goat

Thank you very much Master Tong.
Regards.

 

[dolphin78]

Hi Master Tong,
Is 30 Nov 2012 a good date for us?

 

[melody12]

Hi Master Tong,

This is a repost after we have decided that we wan to proceed with 2012 wedding.thank you

*We are getting married in 2012 weekends and would greatly appreciate if you could advise us on the auspicious dates.

Groom : Mar 1983 - Pig
Bride : Jan 1983 - Dog

Groom Dad : Dec 1952 - Dragon
Groom Mom : Apr 1950 - Tiger

Bride Dad : Sep 1954 Horse
Bride Mom : Oct 1960 Rat

Thank you very much

 

[curious82]

Hi Master Tong,
We are intending to ROM on 24 Dec 2011 and wondered if this would be a good date for us (The Tong Shu was so confusing). Any auspicious timings to recommend for ROM?

Groom: 29/01/1982 Dog
Bride: 30/11/1982 Dog

Groom Dad: Ox
Groom Mum: Horse

Bride Dad: Monkey
Bride Mum: Snake

Thank you very much

 

[jocelynkoh]

Hi Master Tong,

We like to check the auspicious date for 2013. No particular month, just need to be weekend. However Bride's Paternal Grandmother passed away on 24 Apr 2011. Pls help to advise if we can continue the wedding in 2013.

Groom: Monkey
Bride: Rat

Groom Father: Rat (Deceased)
Groom Mother: Rabbit

Bride Father: Rooster
Bride Mother: Rat

 

[邵敏郡主]

Master Tong - I note that the dragon year next year is very good as there are "2 springs" and in 2013 there is "No Spring" (blind year).

But that doesnt mean that it is not good for marriage right? THEre should be good days too?

P/S: We have decided to do our ROM in the 2nd half of next year

 

[cmg_consulting]

Hi Wan Ting

that day is a general tong shu good day too and clash Ox. If none of you are Ox, then ok to use

 

[cmg_consulting]

Hi Nguik2

Only 15 February 2012 is a gd date for Guo Da Li

15 Feb is good for An Chuang too. The other 2 dates are not good dates for An CHuang

 

[cmg_consulting]

Hi MelMel

Sure. Let me know which months you looking at and weekend or weekdays as whole of 2012 is a long range (repost all your info again in next post. tks)

 

[cmg_consulting]

Hi Jessica J

It is not an ideal date for wedding/ROM, but it doesn't clash to anyone. If you must use, then the ROM timing will be 3-5pm or 7-9pm

 

[cmg_consulting]

Hi Jocelyn

So long as more than 1 year apart, it will be ok (some practice 3 yrs, depending on your family belief)

2013 tong shu is not out yet.It will only be out next yr July. Hence if you are looking at general dates only, you can post here after July next yr.

right now the only way to select 2013 dates is using bazi and so far i already done over 200++ couples. By time the tong shu is out, usually most hotel weekend dates are long gone

 

[cmg_consulting]

Hi èµµæ•

So long as the yr don't clash to your zodiac signs, it will be ok for wedding. 2 spring or no spring has nothing to do with good or not good for wedding, that is more of a chinese culture thingy.

 

[melody12]

Hi Master Tong,

We are getting married in 2012 weekends and would greatly appreciate if you could advise us on the auspicious dates for all weekends after 31 Mar 2012 .

Groom : Mar 1983 - Pig
Bride : Jan 1983 - Dog

Groom Dad : Dec 1952 - Dragon
Groom Mom : Apr 1950 - Tiger

Bride Dad : Sep 1954 Horse
Bride Mom : Oct 1960 Rat

Thank you very much

 

[mrslim80]

Hi,
Can I check whether we need to be at home during an chuang?

 

[pandapanda]

Hi Master Tong. Is it true that for the main entrance that is diagonally facing a staircase is not good in fengshui terms? What can be done?
Thanks!

 

[cmg_consulting]

Hi MelMel

Here are ALL the general good weekends:

- 05/05, 06/05, 12/05, 29/07, 18/11, 25/11

These are all the general tong shu god dates and don't clash to any of you. Rest of weekends are either not gd or clashes.

Hope this helps

** note that this is general tong shu good date only. A good date in the tong shu can still turn out to be inauspicious if the date and both your Bazi are not compatible

 

[cmg_consulting]

Hi Helen

if there is a good fortune couple doing it for you, then you don't need to be ard

 

[cmg_consulting]

Hi Panda

If diagonal, it is ok. If you open the door, and immediately there is a staircase going downwards then it is very bad

 

[pinkangel17]

Hi Master Tong,

Is there any good dates between 24 Dec to Jan 8 or any available good dates till Jun 2012 if we are to proceed to rom even though dog clashes in 2012??

Thanks.

Groom: 1982
Bride: 1981

Groom's Parents: 1951 & 1959
Bride's Parents: 1950 & 1955

 

[pandapanda]

Thank you Master Tong.
Yes yes, it's diagonally opposite and there is a door leading to the staircase that is always closed. However, if we still don't feel very comfortable, is it okay if we put a å±é£Ž to try to block the view as much as possible?
And also heard it is not very good that 2 main doors facing each other? What can be done?
Thank you!

 

[cmg_consulting]

Hi PinkAngel

I need to know all your animal zodiac signs. Year alone I won't know your zodiac signs.

 

[cmg_consulting]

Hi Panda

If diagonal and door always close, then no problem at all, don't worry. If not comfortable, you can block with some plants outside your main door ( but trust me, it is not necessary)

2 main door facing each other is NOT no good. Rather, 1 unit will be good and the other unit will be bad. In other words, if your unit is good,then your neighbour will be bad and vice versa (provided your move in in the same feg shui period). Hence to know who is good or bad, a feng shui audit has to be carried out. So don't worry about this hearsay. If your house isgood, you don't have to do anything. If your unit is bad, then some feng shui cures will have to be done, but there is no generic answer so a fengshui audit has to be done at your home to find out what cures to implements for your house

Hope this helps

 

[cecy]

Hi Master Tong,

I don't know much about auspicious dates - is it important to also look at both side's parent's birth dates?

At the moment I dont know his parent's zodiacs, but I do have the following:

Groom: Pig (1983)
Bride: Ox (1985)

Bride's Mum: Ox (1949)

We plan to get married on 24th November 2012 (It's our anniversary so was hoping we can have it then). Can you please tell me if this date will be ideal? If it isn't can you please give me some ideal dates for the end of 2012 (Saturdays only).

Thank you so much.

 

[pandapanda]

Many thanks for your kind advise Master Tong

 

[pinkangel17]

Hi Master Tong,

Here's their zodiac signs.

Is there any good dates between 24 Dec to Jan 8 or any available good dates till Jun 2012 if we are to proceed to rom even though dog clashes in 2012??

Thanks.

Groom: Dog
Bride: Rooster

Groom's Parents: Pig & Rabbit
Bride's Parents: Tiger & Sheep

 

[rustybear]

Hi Master Tong,

We are planning to get married in first half of 2013 and would greatly appreciate if you could advise us on the auspicious dates. Here are our details:

Groom: Jun 1984 Rat
Bride: Dec 1984 Rat

Groom's Dad: Feb 1947 Pig
Groom's Mum: Mar 1953 Snake

Bride's Dad: Mar 1953 Snake
Bride's Mum: Jan 1958 Roaster

 

[cmg_consulting]

Hi Cecilia

Yes i need both sides parent's zodiacs, hence will need his as well, before i can check for you the dates is auspicious or not

But in any case, 24th Nov itself is not a general tong shu good date

 

[cmg_consulting]

Hi Panda

you are welcome